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New BLOG Format

2009-11-01T16:39:00.001-05:00

We use BLOG software from Google (Blogspot) and updated to a new version (after making latest entries!)

One difference is that the archieves are at the BOTTOM. We also extended the number of entries that can be seen in one go.

Enjoy!

Art in Odd Places

2009-11-01T06:05:00.017-05:00

Erin and her friend Radhika co-guest-curated "Art in Odd Places" during the month of October on 14th Street in NYC. Here is the web site: http://www.artinoddplaces.org/ and the site BLOG http://aiop2009.blogspot.com/

Carol and Pat went to the big opening night event and met lots of interesting people, including performing artists of various sorts wandering around.

The show received good local and national coverage in the press:

"This year Art in Odd Places was bigger and better than ever- taking a huge team effort to create the 14th Street festival over four weeks in October. Guest curators, Erin Donnelly and Radhika Subramaniam rose the bar significantly taking the AiOP concept to new levels."

New York Times

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/02/arts/02spare.html?_r=1&scp=1&sq=Art%20in%20Odd%20Places&st=cse

Paper Magazine

http://www.papermag.com/blogs/2009/10/theres_art_in_odd_places_along.php

and more

Domus

http://www.domusweb.it/upd_Art/article.cfm?idtipo=3&id=709

Professional Dreamers
http://www.professionaldreamers.net/?p=437

NY Magazine

http://nymag.com/listings/art/art-in-odd-places/

RIO!!! THE ROAD TO RIO WITH BING, BOB...

2009-10-27T19:33:00.018-04:00

BRAZIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rio de Janeiro is W O N D E R F U L!
Pat has business in Rio for Telcordia and it couldn't a be better location!
The hotel is right on the beach at Copacabana. This time Carol got to go because it was time for a "look around" trip and for Pat to stop and smell the roses and see the sights of the city.

It is such a beautiful and unusual sight to see the beach and the patterned black and white Mosaic sidewalks back up right into the city. People are walking around in the business district with sand on their legs and in beach clothes.
The tourist sites are SugarLoaf Mountain which you can go up in little aeriel cable cars to see the whole of the city. There is also Corcovado. We went through a rain forest then up a couple of levels to their National Park where the Christ statue looks out all over the city. Luckily it happened to be a big anniversary of the erection of the statue and many bishops, priests, nuns and just regular people were up on top of the mountain in front of the Christ statue for a celebratory Mass. That made it even more crowded and hard to get a souvenir picture of the famous site.

We went out to an Irish Pub for Fabio's birthday party as soon as we landed. That and the barbecue restaurant at Porcao was where all the Telcordia families gathered. Pictured here is the get together.

Carol got a guided tour to Nitaroi across the bay from Rio. MAC is there- the modern art museum which looks like a flying saucer!

The walls around town are painted sometimes in surprising locations.
Here are pictures of the walls in the park leading from the beach in Ipenema into the city.

l.a. meets nyc- chris and brian visit

2009-10-25T20:40:00.002-04:00

Chris and Brian came to visit NYC for a whirlwind visit. Chris hadn't been to the city since he was about 11 years old. They had time to meet up with us at Le Loup Bistro in the Village. Erin and Esme joined us too for a jazz brunch.

LET JESUS FIX IT FOR YOU!!!

2009-09-28T10:32:00.012-04:00

NEW YORK, HARLEM

AUGUST 2009

Angie came from U.K. and flew all around New York City seeing everything but real treat was her idea to go to Harlem to hear their gospel choir sing and rock the roof. The Abyssinian Church of Harlem is famous! for this service and welcomes visistors from all around the world.

There is a very strict protocol to follow mainly getting to the church to wait in sidewalk line for hours ahead of time. There are handlers from the church who herd you and caution you and decide if you are properly dressed -no flip flops for safety on stairs and no devilish clothes allowed. They "axe you and axe you" to follow their rules about orderly procession into the inner sanctum of the church. Once inside (a real coup- if you make the cut) you are shushed and hushed and led quietly to your seat by this army of ushers. Most of them are women of a "certain age" and their uniform is white like an old fashioned nurses uniform, white shoes, and white gloves and a BIG name tag identifying them as important ushers for the church. There are a few men ushers and they wear tuxedos- some of them with white jackets.

We were lucky to be there on Baptism sunday and five people were dunked full body in the permanent Baptism water that runs like a little pool on the sides and back of the altar.

Also, it is not like a show to hear the music but you are their guest to their church and they had members of the church sitting all around the visitors to welcome them.

The music was outstanding! There were at least 25 people in the choir facing the congregation and some of their songs were so full of emotion that people were fainting and crying in the congregation justs hearing the music. They sang many great hymns including my favorite- "Let Jesus Fix It For You" which had a almost hypnotic rhythm to it and seemed to produce hysteria.

It was a totally great experience and a once in a lifetime thing that I was so happy to see and will never forget.

and why not let jesus fix it for you once in a while?

Horse Fans Unite!!!

2009-08-30T10:51:00.016-04:00

Here are pictures of Rebecca's horse show in late summer. Rebecca won the blue ribbon (1st prize) and her friend Alison won the red ribbon. Both girls kept one ribbon for themselves and gave the other to the horse where it is on display at Nearfield Farms.

Pictured here are Angie, Rebecca and Bridget. It was at Applewood Farms, N.J.

Bridget, Pat, Rebecca and Carol went to see the Lipinzaner Horse Show at Madison Square Garden, NYC in October. These are beautiful horses who do complicated dressage maneuvers to music.

The last picture is Rebecca riding Zach in October.

John's Visit 'Back East'

2009-08-30T07:53:00.007-04:00

John visited New Jersey for a few days in August. We all had a really good time. John and Dad went to a SF Giants game at the new Mets Stadium, SF won. The new park is really nice.

Rebecca, Bridget, John and Dad went to a Patriots game at our local stadium. John caught a foul ball ricochet off the back wall; the announcer said it was "the catch of the day"; unfortunately John painfully jammed his finger - but held on! Good catch John.

It was really nice visit all around.

Megan and Georg in NYC

2009-08-29T07:59:00.016-04:00

Megan stopped by on her way home from Istanbul and Georg was in town as well. Unfortunately Pat was in Brazil, but Carol was able to spend quality time with them both. Georg picked The Palms restaurant for dinner. Megan and Carol saw "West Side Story" and Megan's friend Omar joined for the big sightseeing bus tour.
Erin, CCR, Esme, Ellyn, Megan, Omer, Pat and Carol enjoed a wonderful dinner at Centocette restaurant in the East Villiage.

ahoy! for whales and lauren

2009-08-29T07:59:00.014-04:00

Summer is the time for visiting Lauren and her WhaleWatch in beautiful Bar Harbor, Maine.

On our way to see Lauren and her whales, Pat, Rebecca and Carol went to Boston first. We got a preview of what Lauren was going to show us by visiting the excellent New England Aquarium first.

We also got to take a quick tour around Boston to see all the sights and historical things.

Ipshita Nag Deepak met with us at breakfast. We know her from India and she is busy in Boston attending MIT so we were thrilled to see her again!

Lauren took us on the sea cruise of a lifetime. The boat is for tourists to go out and see the whales playing and sometimes showing off for the boats. We went to their feeding grounds.

Lauren and friend who is also a marine biologist on our boat.

Did you know that whales only eat for 6 months out of the year??? This boat is actually a scientific laboratory for studying sealife with all kinds of staff and equipment.

whale tail

We were so so so lucky and got to see at least 11 whales out there. We finally had to leave them- but what a treat and we had the BEST personal guide ever---- LAUREN.

Visiting Megan in Puerto Rico, then Cruise

2009-08-29T07:58:00.021-04:00

May, 2009

Shown here at the airport here in San Juan are Megan, her friend Omar, and Kris. Omar took GREAT care of Megan's guests as a favor to Megan and as a tour guide for his country- and we were not exception!

Our niece Megan got a promotion with her job at Enterprise and moved to Puerto Rico to use her excellent Spanish. So we decided to meet up there with Kris who was already visiting Megan and then take a few days cruise back to New York.

We really enjoyed San Juan and seeing Megan and Kris. There were so many sights to see in Old San Juan.

They have gambling in all the hotels in Old San Juan. Kris and I spent time in our hotel dancing with the "fan club" of the band in the Casino, while Pat was at the Roulette Wheel. The Band Fan Club was made up of all native retirees who just love to hang around the Casino hearing their favorite live music.

We started the cruise in Puerto Rico on Princess Cruise Line and ended up in Brooklyn Shipyards, New York City. Stopped in St. Thomas and Bermuda along the way. Pat enjoyed the long days at sea, because the Casino was open. Gambling "baby needs a new pair of shoes!" as often as possible. Fun? si si si

Pat's New Job

2009-08-29T07:58:00.004-04:00

Pat has returned from India and accepted a position as Regional Vice President, Americas. He will be focusing on Mexico, Central and South America in the beginning. He has already made several visits to Brazil and hired folks in Rio and Mexico City.

'Really'? Last Trip to India

2009-08-29T07:56:00.032-04:00

Some of the Telcordia Kids with Carol Auntie and Pat Uncle

Pat was commuting to India for the first part of the year. In May, the Company held the CEO Awards in India to honor members of the India Team that contributed to our great success in 2008-2009. Carol was able to join in the celebrations.

Going Away at Qutab

The India Team also hosted an official Going Away party for Pat and Carol at the Qutab Hotel. Vandana and Arshi did a great job of organizing everything and we were very happy to see everyone from the office as well as Monty and Mark Greenquist. Of course we also saw the staff from Qutab!

The India Team presented Pat and Carol with a pair of fabulous decorative marble elephants.

Visits with Friends, especially DWCA School Staff

It was a quick trip, but we were able to see our friends and participate in the celebrations.

"The Famous Pooja" and Laxmi honored us by showing us their local Temples.

We also attended a "Spring Bash" hosted by the Delhi Network Gurgaon Chapter.

Telcordia CEO Awards

The Telcordia CEO, Mark Greenquist and Monty visited India to present awards to the members of Team India. The event had a special India flare, including a Rajastani puppet show and a wonderful meal. Indian colleagues from Gurgaon, Chennai and Hydrabad with their families joined the celebration.

Pat and his successor Anuj Kapur look on with pride.

Disneyworld With Rebecca

2009-08-29T07:54:00.012-04:00

Granny and Grandpa were able to sneak away for a weekend with Rebecca at Disneyworld in Orlando, Florida in February. (Much warmer in Florida than in New Jersey!) We stayed at the Disney Hotel, the Swan.

Rebecca choose to go to Epcot Center and the Magic Kingdom. We really had a good time. Granny looked on as Grandpa and Rebecca went on the scary rides.

Esme's First Birthday

2009-08-29T07:54:00.007-04:00

May 3, 2009 Esme turned ONE!

Erin and Chris invited many family and friends. Pat came from India 16 hour flight and arrived just in time for the party.

Rain came too, so the backyard at the apartment party was quickly moved to East Village restaurant called Remedy.

Esme was the life of the party but fell asleep before we were able to sing Happy Birthday!

Many Family Awards

2009-06-27T19:33:00.022-04:00

Our Granddaughter, Rebecca, Daughter, Erin, Sister (in-law) Mary and Pat all received important awards in the first part of 2009. The news is highlighted below.

Rebecca received an end-of-year award for straight As in Social Studies and also participated in a young writers workshop. She also finished the scolastic year with very high marks in all subjects. She is now preparing for her first Horse Show.

Erin awarded the David Alfaro Siqueiros Award from the New York City Volunteer Lawyers for the Arts http://www.vlany.org/aboutus/
The David Alfaro Siqueiros Awards
These awards honor two individuals and one philanthropic organization who represent David Alfaro Siqueiros' artistic philosophy and integrity. 2009 Award Recipients Christoph Büc hel, Artist, Erin Donnelly, LMCC, The Edmond de Rothschild Foundation, New York

Erin Donnelly, Director, Artist Residencies

Erin Donnelly is Residency Director and Curator and has been with the Council since 2001. Independent and guest curatorial projects include Henry Street Settlement/Abrons Art Center, Gigantic ArtSpace, and ‘the lab’ at the Roger Smith Hotel all in New York City, The Peekskill Project, and Kunsthalle Exnergasse in Vienna, Austria, among others. She has worked on exhibitions at the Lower East Side Tenement Museum; the Grey Art Gallery, New York University; and the New Museum of Contemporary Art. She has taught at New York University. She was awarded a Helena Rubinstein Curatorial Fellowship, Independent Study Program, Whitney Museum of American Art and received an MA from Gallatin School of Individualized Study and certificate in Museum Studies from New York University.

Mary Donnelly-Crocker Community Award

Pat's sister, Mary Donnelly-Crocker, was honored as one of "Fifty Fabulous Women over Fifty" in her community of Pasadena, California for her work at Young and Healthy and her "delightfully passionate" approach to children's health.

http://www.youngandhealthy-pas.org/index

The magazine: http://www.themagazinell.com/archive/apr_09.pdf

Pat Receives three Awards from Telcordia

In recognition of the business success in India last year (couldn't have done it without Carol!!), Pat received the Sales Excellence Award as the top sales performer in the Company, the CEO Award for Team India and the "Diamond Club" for leadership. A few pictures:

Pat receives award in native dress

Pat and Carol at Diamond Club celebration in Dominican Republic

Going Away Party/Carol Birthday

2009-01-02T16:23:00.037-05:00

Pat had planned a 64th birthday party for Carol on December 22. After the time that it was planned, we decided that we had to leave India, so we added a farewell component to the planned party.

Great party was arranged by the Food and Beverage staff of the hotel. We started with champagne and juice toast to Carol. The menu was planned with veg and non-veg starters and entrées with both Indian and Continental dishes. We ended with the special pineapple birthday cake.

Basically, we invited everyone we knew in India. Our friends and their families from Telcordia Gurgaon office came as well as the teachers from the school with their kids, and our friends from the apartments Lorraine and John. Brijesh, Suman and Brijesh's younger brother who we had met at their wedding in July 2008 also stopped by.

Many people brought Carol beautiful flower arrangements (that we used the next day for the DCWA Christmas show) and the F&B staff really surprised Carol with a exotic hookah.

Vandana presented Carol with beautiful flowers and an elegant Swarovski crystal Clam shell with pearl on behalf of the Telcordia Team. All were accompanied by huge cards signed by everyone.

Hope to go back to India another time! It certainly enriched our lives and we had the time of our lives there with a lot of very warm and friendly people.

During the day of the Party, the Clarion Staff visited Carol to wish her good wishes on her Birthday.

Sadly, we were moving away from India the next day itself. A fun and sad way to say good-bye to India.

Pat will be returning for business trips over the next few months to transition to his successor.

Delhi Commonwealth Womens Association (DCWA) School Christmas Show

2009-01-02T08:09:00.047-05:00

Carol has been volunteering at the DCWA school all year. http://dcwaindia.com/index.htm There are 68 children, 3-4 years old and the program is designed to help the children prepare for pre-school. None of the children speak English - but Carol transcended the language barrier - and the fabulous teachers all spoke English and helped out where needed.

The teachers are: Pragyan, Nisha, Laxmi, me, the famous Pooja, and Manju (and Laxmi's son)

Earlier in the year, there was an 'All Indian Holidays Show', celebrating all the festivals of India (there are MANY!). The children really enjoyed getting into costumes, makeup and dancing.

The Christmas Pagent

But the highlight for us was the Christmas Show; presented on the very day we left for USA! The Children performed seven dances centered around the Nativity theme with costumes and dance moves to match. The teachers and volunteers did an amazing job getting the right kid, in the right costume, with the right makeup at the right time - and the children were extraordinarily well behaved at all times.

Carol pressed our new neighbor, Lorraine into service to help with makeup.

The girls look adorable!

Carol and Pat

with Angels

Silent Night

We Three Kings

Two volunteers from Calif. with Pooja

Mary and Joseph with baby Jesus

were on stage the whole time

Santa arrived with gifts for all

The families of the Children really enjoyed the show!

Seema and Vivek Wedding, New Delhi

2009-01-02T05:52:00.021-05:00

We were privileged to be invited to the wedding of Seema and Vivek; she is a member of the housekeeping staff at our apartment in New Delhi. We were so glad that we went!

Another member of the staff, Rajni and her sister, Rakhi (two beautiful girls from Agra) came with us and guided our driver Surinder to the mysterious place in Delhi. We would have been hopelessly lost without them! We really enjoyed talking to them throughout the evening.

The invitation was gorgeous with Ganesha and it was red paper with gold printing in Hindi.

It was a huge and delightful wedding with the best food! Dham Bischt from the hotel (dancing with Pat below) was our unofficial host and protector and really made it fun for us. He got us a special table where we could look over the festivities in the food hall and was wonderful.

Dancing was on order for the night - we danced for hours. Most of the men (including Pat) did lots of the dancing and posing. They had the DJ and also hired a traditional band. Special drummers were hired to drum the groom in to the ceremony on the shoulders of his relatives. They later drummed again and guests were dancing to their wonderful beat.

The Groom Arrives! We were guided by Rajni to the brides house to see Seema before she arrived at the festivities just before midnight. (The old Americans were tired by then!)

Congratulations to Seema and Vivek.

Rebecca and Grandparents in NYC

2009-01-01T20:13:00.007-05:00

For many years, Granny and Granpa have taken Rebecca into NYC at Christmas time. This year, we stayed in Times Square at the Doubletree and Rebecca and Granny saw Shrek - the Musical on Broadway.

They made their way back to the hotel in a pedi-cab and laughed the whole way home, except for the bill $23 for 5 blocks!

Early Christmas and Thanksgiving 2008

2009-01-01T19:42:00.007-05:00

Early Thanksgiving and Christmas New Jersey November 23, 2008

Since we thought that we would be in India for Christmas, we arranged for an early Thanksgiving/Christmas here in NJ. Bridget, Carl, Rebecca , Erin, Chris, and Esme came over for the turkey dinner and Christmas presents.

Here are the pictures of the early celebrations with Bridget and Erin's Families. John and Diane couldn't make it, but we talked by phone.

We were here for the real Christmas after all.

Angie's Visit to India

2009-01-01T16:30:00.032-05:00

Our friend Angie from the UK (Pat and Angie worked together at Telcordia London office) visited us in India for two weeks in early November . We all had a great time! We visited as much of Delhi and old Delhi as possible (the famous Mugal eatery Karim's), and as many museums, monuments, sights and parks as possible.

The out of town trips included the Taj Mahal, Jaipur (known as the Pink City) and the Sunderbans (beautiful woods) near Kolkata on a tiger viewing trip.

The Sunderbans Tiger Preserve and Kolkata

Mr. P.K. Nag organized a trip to the Sunderbans and Kolkata, in his home state of Bengal. Because Angie was with us, he was kind enough to extend the invitation to include her as well. So Mr. and Mrs. Nag, Carol and Pat and Angie set out to see tigers! Mr. Nag also organized the local telephone operator to have a local manager and his wife accompany us - we learned a lot! That's all of us pictured above.
The picture to the left was what we were looking for! Alas, we didn't see any of the famous Bengal Tigers, only paw prints. We spent overnight at the Tiger Preserve to provide maximum time. The only way to view is from boats going around the > 100 islands and man-made observation towers. We spent probably around 12 hours on the boat.

Mr. Nag provided a personal tour of Kolkata, including a special restaurant: Oh! Calcutta (Not the naughty play!) - the typical Bengali food was excellent; here we are at the signature landmark: Victoria Memorial Hall.

Weekend at the Jai Mahal Palace in Jaipur - the Pink City

Jaipur was one of our 'must see' cities and we were lucky enough to go there with Angie. We stayed at the FABULOUS Jai Mahal Palace. http://www.photowebusa.com/taj/jai-mahal-palace/index.htm This is really a five star "hotel", actually a converted real Palace. Top notch service, great food, tremendous grounds and gardens, local entertainment every night (two local misses to left) - really a terrific experience.

We took trips into the city and environs with a really good guide from the Hotel - JP. The picture below is from the Hindi Temple complex at Galtaji Temple. We called it the 'monkey temple' because there were hundreds of monkeys running around.

The Palace below is 'floating' on a lake - breathtaking!

We really recommend seeing Jaipur - AND the fabulous Jai Mahal Palace hotel. (Actually we have stayed in many Taj Hotels in India - they are all top drawer)

Angie's Birthday in Delhi

Angie also celebrated her birthday with us on November 13 in grand style. Carol bought fabrics in India and Angie had this dress made by a local tailor - just for her (after a few tries). We took her to the Oberi Hotel for dinner at their Chinese restaurant - reputed to be the best Chinese in Delhi - it was 'OK'. Here's is the doorman at the Oberi greeting Angie.

After the Oberi we retired to the Le Bar at Qutab where the celebration continued, including a cake from the Food & Beverage Staff.

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PS - "Private" to Paul Donnelly. We both stayed in Rajistan - below is your accommodations and ours - are you nuts? (or are we?)

Vinnie and Cristiano's Wedding

2009-01-01T04:50:00.019-05:00

September 19, 2008

Vinnie and Cristiano's Wedding

St. Agnes by the Sea

Naples, Italy

Vinnie and Cristiano had a very elegant Italian wedding. The night before the wedding was an out of towner's and relatives dinner hosted by the couple at the famous Due Perele restaurant. The meal included fabulous starters and typical Napoli dishes.

It was the night of an important Napoli football game - so popular, that our party almost had the restaurant to ourselves! The Groom, Cristiano, and friends ate and left in time to catch the game.

The next day the wedding was at St Agnes by the Sea church, Napoli. The church looked very elegant with the beautiful flowers Vinnie and Cristian had chosen. We were about the first guests to arrive.

The violinist was very good and added elegance to the ceremony - all live music and gorgeous, no detail was over looked.

The reception was held a little further out in Naples a gorgeous hill top venue; it was raining 'cats and dogs' the whole time, but everyone was in a festive mood anyway. There were many, many courses featuring thoughtfully planned menu of fantasy of the sea, fantasy of the land so many courses! We were trying to translate the menu and it myriad of courses asked some cousins of Vinnie and came up with dried ostrich as one of the courses it turned out to be SOMETHING ENTIRELY different - probably a "fruit of the sea" ha ha.

Three kinds of desserts! including the famous "venetian table" of everything! completed the evening.

Dancing to live music with friends in the band as well as Giuseppe who came from NYC made the evening quite lively. Many friends came from u.s.a. as well as from Italy from both sides of the family.

As a great touch, pictures of the bride and groom and the each of the guests with the bridal couple were presented as the guests left - all done right at the venue.

Congratulations to the happy, happy couple!
Mr. and Mrs. Cristiano Simonetti

Italy: The Rest

2008-10-25T11:32:00.041-04:00

Florence Skyline

We ventured to Florence by train from Rome, a nice short trip- about three hours. Since Florence is really the cradle of renaissance art we HAD to see the Uffizi Gallery http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uffizi and stay until we had just had enough... (hours and hours later) The Cathedral is one of the most visited sites there because it is just so gorgeous- all done up in white and green marble. We stopped in as many churches that were open when we walked by, which seems to be a good strategy in church laden cities in Italy.

We actually had to go back into the Uffizi after we left because we somehow missed the Bottacello room!! It was worth the reentry!

Ponte Vecchio

They specialize in leather goods in Florence and the Ponte Vecchio is the "gold and jewelry capital of the world" as far as they are concerned. It is really pretty from afar since all the gold and jewelry shops hang over the river it is quite picturesque but a tourists nightmare on foot. (similar to the crowding of Times Square in NYC) Florence has a great small town feeling (like the Carousel pictured here) and you can walk and walk to everything quite safely in the no cars zone, (but they do allow public buses. Kris and I were distracted by a fabulous Italian candy shop with the prettiest displayed wares. I actually had to push her out of the way on oncoming bus. At least driver had the manners to honk frantically at us.

We had a two block walk from the Florence hotel to the train station and then it was off to Naples.

Naples - Gritty and Pretty

Pat and I went to Naples a few years ago to see the Pompeii treasures at the Museo Archilogicio and were a little taken aback by the relaxed atmosphere regarding security of the art. They do have guards and the first time we were there we were really enjoying watching the guards take their ease while on duty. They were chatting to each other and sitting reading newspapers while sticking their feet out the window waiting for a nice breeze to come along.

They didn't give a fig that we were even there.

This time didn't disappoint in that department either. Note the picture of Pat he is talking a business call on a plinth using it a a support for his novel as well while two guards and/or museum employees were having a great old discussion- totally oblivious of him.

We were a little nervous about this Naples hotel choice too because we drove through a long and winding very "earthy" and scary looking neighborhood to get there. However the hotel was a hip hip place and matched up with the pix. Darling young people who didn't want us to get ripped off by anyone from taxi drivers to whoever. And the best part was we could walk to the old section of town in minutes and it was so GREAT. Historic Naples!

It was so so interesting, crowded, scooters, so many people, such great food! See local color photo. We visited the pride of Naples- the Archaeological Museum which houses all the treasures from Pompeii. There are over 400 churches in Naples and we were lucky if we got to see a dozen of them! We visited as many churches as were open when walking by them.

It was so good to see people stopping in to say HI to God, even young teenage boys would pop into the church for a quick prayer then out the door.
We were so lucky to have been there for San Genaro's day Sept 19. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/San_Gennaro We have celebrated it in NYC a couple of times but now we really understand what it is all about. That important holy day happened to coincide with Vinnie and Cristian's wedding day. San Genaro's day happens twice a year. It is the day the vial of blood from San Genaro is taken out from its reliquary and it turns to liquid. People rejoice when this happens!
We went to see the treasury at the cathedral and saw this reliquary the day before the event.

"Christmas Alley"

Also we visited the small but important street the American's nicknamed "Christmas alley" ,where they make the most beautiful and sought after nativity sets and floating angels. Fabulous ! The New York Metropolitan Museum puts up a huge Christmas tree every year using these very angels and nativity sets made here on this famous street. See picture of the artist in his shop who made the Christmas angel that will be waiting for us in NJ.

Pat only took one picture in Naples, but it is a prizewinner. We all loved this storefront window of young men's fashions. (does everyone have to wear a hat?)

Pompeii - Kris was amazed!

Pompeii is a beautifully preserved city that was destroyed by Mount Vesuvius eruption in 79AD
The hot lava came so quickly that people were caught unawares and died instantly. Their bones and teeth are preserved today. Many artifacts are still there in the form of fresco's on the walls, the fully laid out streets, lots of buildings intact. Some things have been carefully moved to the museum in Naples for their safety. Pat guided us around Pompeii so we could make the most of our time- it is so big! We even got to see the business establishment of the "ladies of the night".
Wiki reference for Pompeii: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pompeii

Unfortunately, Pat had to go back to India for work so Kris and I went on the rest of the week alone but we did it with style!

Sorrento - Hanging On!

Sorrento story can be told in pictures so you can see how spectacular it is. It is a on a big cliff running along the ocean. Our hotel was in the little harbor and we walked up and down the mountain 160 steps each time we wanted to go to the town square.
Our hotel was funny in the way that it got stuck in 1960's and had decor to match. They also tried to be cute by making the bathroom window a porthole and had loads of sea pictures and sailor's knots, sea bells and anything they could think of to keep the sea theme going.
Charming, on the water and available to take boat trips all the way down the Amalfi Coast. We took such a trip to Positano for the day.

People all over southern Italy were so so so soo nice to us and we felt so comfortable and happy.

Surprising Sicily

Sicily was the biggest surprise; even though we only saw Palermo and outskirts. Two sisters alone wondering what the mafia had in store for us but as the guide books said the mafia makes sure that the tourists are unmolested.

We were welcomed warmly and had the most wonderful time in the capitol city; just wonderful food, warm welcoming people - but the wine not so great. But great names! - "tears of Christ wine" lacramosa de Christi from Pompeii and the specialty red wines of Sicily reminded us of just too earthy a taste almost like the ashes of the volcano- way too much!

We went to the town of Monreale and saw their cathedral and to our home town of Palermo to see their rival cathedral. We also crashed a couple of weddings (Vinnie's got us in the mood)
a mafia affair for sure...

We were looking in churches when we saw florists bringing big arrangements and hung around for the wedding now a pronounce you man and wife! we HAD to see that.

So the fabulous chapel and our famous bus rides with everybody trying to be helpful - totally great Palermo. A city where you can walk around completely in comfort take the public transportation and actually be welcomed. We had a posh hotel but when you look out the window there is graffiti. A family owned trattoria where across the street the bright yellow napkins and tablecloths hung daily after laundering. We ate there and it was like a sitcom. Everyone walking in the door was the Italian equivalent of the Jerry Seinfeld show and a couple of guys from India - INDIA? were in there selling dogs with bobbing heads type of thing. The grandparents of the operation were sitting down with them playing with the toys and bought some; no one was thrown out of the cute café - everyone welcome!

Counter-Point

Italy- When In Rome....

2008-10-24T22:51:00.000-04:00

Piazza Navona, Pat's favorite Pollo Arosto meal

Italy: When in Rome.....
This is a travelogue, part one of a sampling of the three week trip to Italy including Rome, Florence, Naples, Pompeii, Sorrento & Positano, and finally Sicily. Carol, Pat and Carol's sister, Kris had a wonderful three weeks. Vinnie and Cristian's wedding in Naples was the motivation for this trip and will be seen in a future Blog.

Pat, Kris and I started a day by day diary with a few jottings to help us remember all the places and events that were squeezed into each day. This is about our hotel stay in Rome but it colors the whole trip. The whole Rome experience "set the tone", and we felt really Italian and groovy most of the time because we were living like the rest of the people on this street. Everyone greeted us including the old man who ran the used lamp and junk shop next door. Bona Sera ! Everyone uses the street as their living room and sits out as pleasantly as they wish on pvc chairs.

I was almost really nervous that I had made a big mistake about our Rome hotel - and we would be there for about a week . The lobby was a room in a former nunnery that looked like a hodge podge designed from the "garage sale school of design "- even had a futon in it . ??

However, I noticed that the street, Via Urbana was one of Rome's oldest streets and I cautioned Pat that we were going "native" after looking at the place. Good thing that he is a GREAT sport and so easy going.
Kris and I arrived early and were waiting for Pat at what turned out to be "the old lady's lair" as Pat called Layla's restaurant - it was hooked to the hotel but was located across the street .

It had a history that went back and back and was old, old, old, -one of the oldest streets in Rome. It was all cobblestones and pedestrians and motorbikes trying not to hit your butt when just walking down the street.
There were businesses, a beauty shop with women waiting for their hair to process wearing their foil outside to get a breath of fresh air and a breath of cigarette smoke, internet cafés, hotels and restaurants, our own church with actual young nuns attending to the flowers and services. Kris also found an offbeat shop because she needed to replace her flip flops which caught on the handy and rocky cobblestones. It was called HydraII and sold rock-punk-goth-biker-rock-a-billy, western, club wear, shoes, burlesque, vintage, retro, lingerie, costumes and leather gear. Who wouldn't love that??? And all this on the same street- Via Urbana! Wonderfully, at the end of the short street was the handy Metro! Our street also ran parallel with Via Cavour which is a huge hub with buses to everywhere.

The restaurant where we were getting free breakfast with the room was across this little little cobblestone street , and Layla and Lucia went back and forth all day, back and forth, back and forth. It didn't QUITE match the pix i saw on the internet , but the L O C A T I O N sure does and that is just what I look for when booking anywhere.

From the hotel it was a 10 minute walk to the Colosseum and five minutes to the extensive Roma metro.We went all over town: Spanish Steps (McDonalds), Pantheon, Trevi Fountain.

Entry to MacDonalds

We also walked to the Forum Hotel where we love the American bar on the roof, overlooking the Forum itself and the 'slave quarters'.

Life in the Hotel

They think that this was a former nunnery, but in fact we and even the owner Lucia thinks it might have served a term as a nut house after the nuns left . Lucia told us that on the fifth floor of the building that they bought, (to eventually hew out the old rooms and make more rooms for the hotel) ,- they found that one of the rooms had FIVE locks on the outside of the door . humm? ---------
We had one trash can (they sure don't know Americans!) and it was the size of a large coffee can
and when asked for suggestions to make our stay better on a piece of paper-
Pat quipped, "give us SMALLER trash cans!, please" haha we laffed

The shower was in the master bedroom in a corner and the toilet and sink were located in a built-on-porch that hanging off the side of the building- very common here. It was like the old idea of a "lean to" in the West.
Toilet paper was at a premium- gold in exchange for toilet paper!
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No new towels were ever given to us .
It took four major doors to gain entry to our apartment . When we were new there and didn't know all the secret locks, Kris and I accidentally LOCKED Pat in the apartment - he was stuck there until we got back!
Kris DID have a private room in the apartment but it looked a little suspicious that BOTH both of the bedrooms were equipped with OUTSIDE LOCKS . ? We called her narrow cell like room, a nun's room...Sister Mary Ann Kristine

WE LOVED Lucia and Layla, mother and daughter who ran this establishment there was fun and laughing every time we saw them. And Layla speaks only Italian, so no telling what she was talking about to us but we were laughing all the time. Lucia tells us that there will be a spa in the basement coming soon and more rooms renovated as we speak. Meanwhile regular tenants inhabit most of the building.
Until the time that the hotel is finished, guests can still look forward to washing out their underwear etc. and hang them outside the door on the facing courtyard on permanent cloth lines with all the other tenants in the building , really really funny . We even bought clothes pins for this honor.

These people LOVED us and were so nice, that is the heart of Rome. Monuments, history, food, churches, museums- yes to all but the people made ALL THE DIFFERENCE. Layla cried and called us "cara" when we had to leave .

It is just a totally different way of life and we would have had to pay 10 times more to stay in such a great location but got thousands back in pure pleasure of Rome and its people.

Met some Roman friends

We met some old friends in Rome: Gabriel and family and Marco and family - they carefully selected 'good Roman food' for us!

The Glory that was Rome . . .

We visited the typical tourist places of ancient Rome: Colosseum, Pantheon, Forum. As well as the Christian era: St. Peter's, Vatican Museum (Sistine Chapel!), and for the first time visited all four Papal Basilicas.

Papal Fan Club Meeting

From Wikipedia
St. John Lateran, also called the Lateran Basilica, is the cathedral of the Bishop of Rome, the Pope. It is the only one called an "archbasilica". Its full official names are "Papal Basilica of Saint John Lateran", "Archbasilica of the Most Holy Saviour and of Saints John the Baptist and the Evangelist at the Lateran", "Cathedral of Rome".[2]
St. Peter's Basilica, also called the Vatican Basilica, is a major pilgrimage site, being built over the burial place of Saint Peter. Perhaps the largest church in the world, it is used for most of the chief religious ceremonies in which the Popes participate. Its official name is "Papal Basilica of Saint Peter in the Vatican".[3]
Basilica of Saint Paul Outside the Walls, also known as the Ostian Basilica, because situated on the road that led to Ostia, is built over the burial place of Paul the Apostle. Its official name is "Papal Basilica of Saint Paul outside the Walls".[4]
St. Mary Major, also called the Liberian basilica, because the original building (not the present one) was attributed to Pope Liberius, is the largest church in Rome dedicated to the Blessed Virgin Mary , whence its name of Saint Mary Major, i.e. the Greater. Its official name is "Papal Basilica of Saint Mary Major".[5]

Visit Out-of-Town to Tivoli - Hadrian's Villa and Villa d'Este

We took a trip outside Rome to Tivoli to see Hadrian's Villa and Villa d'Este. Hadrian's Villa was built in the 2nd century a.d. . It is in ruins now. In it's heyday is covered 250 acres. No end of luxuries were provided for the many visitors and permanent residents of this complex. The guests were provided with with several "roman baths" of varying temperatures, theater, temples, and libraries. Plus they had a big system of underground tunnels for use by the servants only. Only the higher ups got to walk on the elegant outside paths.

Then the motor coach took us the the Villa d'Este which is known as the palace of five hundred fountains. At one time they actually had a musical fountain when water hit a certain spot it would make a musical note and would play an actual song. Pat and I were doubly glad to be there because we missed seeing it by 5 minutes a few years ago. They closed the doors and that was the end of it- so we finally got in!!

Villa d'Este was comissioned to be built around 1550AD by Cardinal IppolitoII d'Este who was the son of Lucrezia Borgia and grandson of Pope Alexander VI. What a lineage!
Villa d’Este, masterpiece of the Italian Garden, is included in the UNESCO world heritage list. With its impressive concentration of fountains, nymphs, grottoes, plays of water, and music, it constitutes a much-copied model for European gardens in the mannerist and baroque styles.

Our Neighboorhood in Delhi

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We live in South Delhi, at the Clarion Hotel and Apartments (previously called the Qutab Hotel). The area is also called the Qutab area or the Institutional area. It is called Qutab after the very famous Qutab Minar; at 72.5 meters, the Qutab Minar is the tallest brick and stone minaret in the world. It's called the Institutional Area because the are very many Indian Institutes nearby, such as the leading research hospital, Indian Institute of Foreign Trade Mary Curzon, Baroness Curzon of Kedleston Karmapa International Buddhist Institute

Pat Standing Guard

Wiki: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Qutab_Minar

Qutub Minar (Urdu: قطب منار) is the world's tallest brick minaret in Delhi, India.[2] Construction commenced in 1193 under the orders of India's first Muslim ruler Qutb-ud-din Aibak and the topmost storey of the minaret was completed in 1386 by Firuz Shah Tughluq. The Qutab Minar is notable for being one of the earliest and most prominent examples of Indo-Islamic architecture.
It is surrounded by several other ancient and medieval structures and ruins, collectively known as Qutub complex. The complex is listed as a UNESCO World Heritage Site and is one of the most popular tourist destinations in Delhi.

History

At 72.5 m (238 ft), the Qutub Minar is the world's tallest free standing minaret.
Inspired by the Minaret of Jam in Afghanistan and wishing to surpass it, Qutb-ud-din Aibak, the first Muslim ruler of Delhi, commenced construction of the Qutub Minar in 1193, but could only complete its base. His successor, Iltutmish, added three more storeys and, in 1368, Firuz Shah Tughluq constructed the fifth and the last storey. The development of architectural styles from Aibak to Tuglak are quite evident in the minaret. Like earlier towers erected by the Ghaznavids and Ghurids in Afghanistan, the Qutub Minar comprises several superposed flanged and cylindrical shafts, separated by balconies carried on Muqarnas corbels. The minaret is made of fluted red sandstone covered with intricate carvings and verses from the Qur'an. The Qutub Minar is itself built on the ruins of Lal Kot, the Red Citadel in the city of Dhillika, the capital of the Tomars and the Chauhans, the last Hindu rulers of Delhi.

Pat's Birthday in India

2008-10-19T04:56:00.027-04:00

Pat was all by himself in India on his Birthday, or so we thought. (Carol was still in Italy)

Pat was hosted and toasted on his birthday celebrated here at the hotel/apartments on September 28 by the hotel staff starting at midnight.

Many delegations came to the door offering good wishes and a few birthday cakes and bunches of beautiful flowers. He also got a Rajastani outfit shown here as well as a statue Ganesha for best of luck.

People from housekeeping staff, food and beverage and front desk as well as every single staff person wished him birthday greetings and namaste.

Indian hospitality and warmth and welcome, and caring is like none other in the world and very touching.

"Crow"

2008-10-19T03:41:00.008-04:00

We have a large balcony outside the apartment (Pat's smoking area). In the summer, if Carol or Pat were out there we would get harassed by very large crows. They would thump us in the head or back when we weren't looking. Not with their beaks or talons, but with their body. This really surprised us at first!

We asked our Indian friend, Mr. P K Nag, what this meant - he checked with his father-in-law who assured him that "It's not bad, they just want something from you". Mr. Nag suggested water, so we put fresh water out there and later some bread. They never hit us again, but seemed to enjoy the water. Interestingly, they started bring us small gifts: a twig, seed pod, one time a chicken bone.

The crows trained us very well.

Before we started putting out water we named them Adolph and Eva.

Shari Sends Paul to India for His Birthday

2008-10-18T08:57:00.024-04:00

Paul (Pat's baby brother) turned 50 and came for a three week celebration trip to India at his wife Shari's suggestion. (Thanks Shari! - we really enjoyed his visit)

To say that Paul is hardy and rough and ready is like saying that "the Pope is Catholic" . He goes snow camping and builds his own igloo . . . and now Camel riding!

He made the best use of his time here starting with an overnight with us in Delhi . Then he was off to Bikaner immediately getting there by train. He had arranged for a few days camel safari and overnight; went about 50 km on camel back, a big loop around Bikaner, Rajastan , India.

Then back here to Delhi for sightseeing before we all took off to Goa. I arranged for an Indian resort for a couple of days and it was really relaxing and the Baga Beach great. It is such a different part of India, on the water, plenty of fishing, lush, green, palm trees like the tropics, and a huge Catholic and Christian population converted by the arrival of the Portuguese.

Paul wandered around Old Delhi on his on after arriving at train station at 5:30 am! He met many interesting people, played soccer with some local boys and had coffee with local folks while sitting on bags of cement.

Then Paul took off for a mountain retreat here in the north where it was calm, peaceful and unforgettable.

While Paul was staying with us, we spent time in the hotel bar; here is the gang on 'Cigar Night'. The manager of the hotel bar, Ashish, and Paul had some very good conversations with everyone.

Paul really knows how to go native fast!

Chris and Brian visit us in June

2008-10-18T08:24:00.011-04:00

Christopher and Brian were The First Hardy Souls to jump at the chance to see India since our friendly faces were here.

They had a completly fabulous time (speaking for them) and took advantages of seeing and doing as much as possible here in Delhi for only a week.

The big trip was to the Taj Mahal and Agra Fort in Agra. We had a great driver, Suresh for this and for taking us all around Delhi.

They are shown living the high life here at Le Bar and Wildfire in near by Gurgaon where Pat trudges to work everyday.

Some wild life here Chris and the snake charmer and with camel cavalcade on the road to Agra.

In Delhi

Katz's Deli NYC and Great Uncle Georg's visit to Esme and parents

2008-10-13T01:43:00.007-04:00

Great Uncle Georg made a special trip to THE BIG APPLE to see baby Esme and parents.

Here they are in Katz's Deli on the Lower East Side. A totally great experience in every way.

Katz Deli - Georg's Deli of Choice

Since its founding in 1888, it has become popular among locals and tourists alike for its pastrami sandwiches and hot dogs, both of which are widely considered among New York's best.[1] Each week, Katz's serves 5,000 pounds of corned beef, 2,000 pounds of salami and 12,000 hot dogs.[2] "Send a salami to your boy in the Army" was a slogan during WWII.

A Few Days in London

2008-10-12T11:50:00.012-04:00

We went into/out of London for our visit to Dublin and had an opportunity to visit our friends from London.

Rich and Laura Mangan were kind enough to host us at their flat in Kensington. Carol and Laura visited gorgeous Holland Park and we went to a great meal at one of their favorite Italian restaurants.

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West End

We arranged to see 'Buddy Holly Story" with Harry and Celeste from Circus Lodge fame and Angie. Later we went to Harry's choice - Angus Steak House - lot's of fun.

Angie absolutely LOVED this play - she was 'gushing'! And we were all singing along, stamping our feet and clapping wildly.

We were also lucky enough to meet up with our friends Maddy and Stephanie at the tapas bar near Pat's old office at St Martin's Lane.

From London, Carol returned to new Jersey, while Pat went directly back to India.

Visiting Esme and her parents in Dublin

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Esme in Ireland

Even before Esme's birth, Chris had accepted a position teaching a summer session at the NYU campus in Dublin. Even though she was only 10 weeks old, Erin and Chris decided to take her along. And as long as they were there, Carol and Pat and John and Diane decided to meet them there. The previous week, Chris' mother, auntie and cousin made the trip as well.

We had a lot of fun seeing Esme and Dublin.

Erin, Chris and Esme were in a great location on Fishamble Street right near Christ Church Cathedral it was off of Copper Alley annd walkable to everything.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christ_Church_Cathedral,_Dublin

Recently, Ireland had a big prosperity boom and there are more cute restaurants and shops blooming all over the place. They also added the Luas which is s short above ground transportation system and wonderful for getting around. We were using the "interview" all the Dublin cabbies technique method of travel learned loads on information about Dublin then and now from them. Of course, Pubs, music, jokes, museums and friendly people make Dublin all the more warm and welcoming.

Chris was lucky that his pal from NYC, Greg was also there assisting with the classes; we had a good time with Greg and Natasha.

We went out to dinner with the gang any times, and they visited us at our hotel (Mexican Food!) and we all enjoyed the various food selections in Dublin (somewhat of an oxymoron).

We really enoyed our time with our children and our newest grandchild - Esme.

Newgrange in Ireland

2008-10-12T00:14:00.006-04:00

On our trip to Ireland, many people said that we must see the burial tombs at Newgrange. They were right! There are many of these mounds in Ireland and we went to two sites. These stone age tombs are 500 years older than the Great Pyramids in Egypt and 1,000 years older than Stonehenge! So the Irish were ahead of their times! These were built 2,00 years BEFORE the Celtic era.

We visited the sites with John and Diane on a typical rainy day - it's about 1 1/2 hr drive from Dublin. It was really interesting to go inside the mounds.

What is more ancient? The site or the visitors?

John and Diane survey the site

---------------- Academic Reference -----------

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Newgrange

The Megalithic Passage Tomb at Newgrange was built about 3200 BC. The kidney shaped mound covers an area of over one acre and is surrounded by 97 kerbstones, some of which are richly decorated with megalithic art. The 19 metre long inner passage leads to a cruciform chamber with a corbelled roof. It is estimated that the construction of the Passage Tomb at Newgrange would have taken a work force of 300 at least 20 years

http://www.knowth.com/newgrange.htm

Telcordia Tea Party

2008-10-11T22:50:00.011-04:00

Pat and Carol hosted the local Telcordia team and families at our apartment. Notably, Carol wore a saree for the event and looked radient. The hotel staff did a great job of setting everything up.

The Telcordia families had a good time with children running around and everybody talking. A few pictures of the team are below.

The team presented Carol and Pat with a beautiful set of ornamental glasses.

Fabulous Indian Wedding

2008-10-10T07:42:00.002-04:00

Brijish and Suman Wedding

July 11th, 2008

One of the waiters at our apartment/hotel was getting married and he invited us to the wedding. The start time was 8 but we started a little late and didn't arrive until after 9 (you really won't believe the traffic in Delhi!!) - when we arrived we were told we were the first ones there! The groom arrived by a fancy coach at about 10 pm, the bride arrived just before midnight.

There are interesting differences from Europe/USA - the most important being that it is the GROOMS day - not the brides! There are many sub-ceremonies embedded in the overall celebration - for example, the brides family welcoming the brides family - men only - but the women were signing off to one side. The ceremony ends the NEXT DAY at sunrise by walking around a circle of fire.

Many of the hotel staff attended the wedding.

Red Egg Party

2008-10-05T05:54:00.013-04:00

June 7th, 2008

Ellyn hosted Esme's Red Egg Party at Safran Restaurant in Chelsey. About a hundred friends and family joined the celebration. Esme's great aunt Mary flew in from Pasadena, Calif for the event.

In Chinese culture, a baby's first month birthday calls for a celebration. Proud parents introduce their latest addition to friends and relatives by holding a red egg and ginger party. Traditionally, the baby's name is also announced at this time.

Esme Born May 3rd, 2008, New York City

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Erin and Chris are the proud parents of Esme! She was born at New York University Hospital.

Luckily Carol and Pat were in New Jersey (in anticipation!) so we were able to wait at the hospital until she was born along with Emilio, Ellyn, Ajay and Indu.

Esme was very alert imediately and Erin and Chris looked none-the-worse-for-wear. She was born with lots of hair!

There are thousands of pictures it seems, selection below.

The next day there were lot's of visitors!
Grandfather Clarence

Cousin Rebecca

Vinnie

Rebecca is becoming a VERY good horsewoman

2008-10-05T03:01:00.008-04:00

Rebecca riding Ace

Rebecca has been taking riding lessions twice a week and two sessions of horse camp. Carol and I were at her early lessions and have seen tremendous progress. She is very confident and comfortable.

Rebequus

Chris (Erin's husband) made a movie of one of Rebecca's lessions; it's at hegemonysolutions.com/Rebequus.mov

Here's a few pictures.

March to May was VERY Busy!

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Whew!

Erin and Chris' baby, Esme (see later) was due in May, Bridget's birthday in March, Rebecca's birthday in April, Baby Shower in NYC, we moved to India, and were awarded a glorious trip to Bahamas by Pat's Company!! We probably traveled three times between USA and India in these three months.

Rebecca's 10th Birthday

Rebecca had a Bowling Party for her 10th Birthday with her pals from school. Pat arrived from India the morning of the Party! Bridget and Carl made sure that everything went smoothly. Everyone had a nice time; even Pat Bowled! Rebecca is a good bowler!

Erin's Baby Shower New York City

With the imminent arrival of Esme, Carol planned a baby shower in March for Erin at a New York City nouveau Vietnamese restaurant in Chelsea. (figure that out!). About 30 of Erin's family,and family friends, Mary Ann and Gloria, work friends and Chris' friends attended. Aunt Sally came all the way from California to attend and spend a few days with Carol. As ususal, Sally helped with everything and made sure that the details were handled. What Sally didn't do, Vinnie did!

Chris came at the end to help Erin home and "hilarity ensured"

Sophia - GreatGrandma, Andrea 'second Grandmother' and Ellyn grandmother

Pat and Carol in Bahamas

Pat's company, Telcordia, awarded us an all expenses trip to the Grand Bahamas for his efforts in 2007. We arrived late due to Esme birth, but had a good time, even though we were both exhausted and sick. Too much travel in too short a time.

Carol's First Trip to India

2008-10-02T06:35:00.011-04:00

We decided to move to India for Pat's work! Quite a different environment and culture from Europe or USA. Pat had been 'commuting" for a year and a half and we decided to take the plunge.

We found a guide, Suresh, through the Meriden Hotel - he became our 'family guide' to Taj Mahal and Delhi - we've used him for every visit by family.

We found a 'serviced apartment' at the Qutab Hotel in South Delhi, it's perfect for us because they take care of everything (three maids), laundry boy, 24X7 guards and full access to hotel facilities: Gym, Pool, beauty shop, restaurants.

On Carol's first trip she found the apartment and we did visits to Arga, for Taj Mahal, Agra Fort and Delhi - old and new. The elephant picture was 'on the road to Agra'. (50 Rupees to take a picture, about $1.10)

John and Diane's Reception

2008-03-30T09:24:00.012-04:00

John and Diane celebrated their wedding at a reception in Petaluma on February 23rd. Carol, Bridget and Rebecca flew in from New Jersey and many relatives arrived from SoCal: Mary's whole Family (how did they get all together in one place?), Georgianna, Carol (Bill's Carol), Deanna, Mike and Joanie, Georg Olsen and entourage, Kris and Megan. The Best Man, Mark and Maid of Honor Donna were there as well. Other members of Diane's family also attended.
The venue was McNears Pub in Petluma and John and Diane put on quite a spread in "the Irish Style"

The Spread

The Aunties

Trip to Mexico

2007-12-01T17:57:00.004-05:00

Just before we went to Mexico City I read the book 1491 about the history of the natives of the Americas before Columbus. I enjoyed the book very much. Here's some of the conclusions (not all 'proven'):

1. More than 90% of the native people died from European desises, notably smallpox

2. In the 1400's there were more people in Mesoamaerica than in Europe; large cities of over 200, 000 people.

3. Important 'exports' include maize (corn), potatos, tomatoes, tobacco, chocolate - all developed in the 'New World'; interestingly, their scientists used genetically hybrid technology to 'create' maize - it's not indiginous - but engineered. 4. Lots of other important science - especially in math (the '0') and calendar

The author starts with the 'traditional' view and then reveals more recent findings. He jumps around a bit which sometimes makes it hard to follow - but, I think, well worth the time.

For Reviews of 1491, see below.

http://www.amazon.com/review/product/140004006X/ref=dp_top_cm_cr_acr_txt/105-9852677-0059656?%5Fencoding=UTF8&showViewpoints=1

Mr. and Mrs. John Donnelly

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John and Diane were married on November 2, 2007 under the impressive Rotunda of San Francisco City Hall. The ceremony was very touching and personal; they both look SO HAPPY and BEAUTIFUL.

San Francisco weather was beautiful and the venue was spectacular.

Diane sister, Donna was the Maid of Honor, while John's long time friend Mark Hobbins was the Best Man. Donna's BF, Jason was the official photographer. The wedding party was rounded out with the Father, Mother and Aunt of the Groom. We'll add the official photos to the BLOG when we get them from Jason.

Celebration Lunch

After the ceremony, John and Diane hosted a celebration lunch at Schroeder's Restaurant, a famous SF landmark, since 1893. The food and beer were very, very good and the atmosphere was congenial.

We may return for Polka Night!

That evening we all meet up a Vesuvio's, a North Beach former beatnik hangout of Jack Kerouac and Allan Ginsberg. Dylan (before he went electric) and Ginsberg to the left.

The following day, Carol and Pat, Mother and Father of the Groom, hosted a small brunch at the famous Tadich Grill, founded in 1849. The seafood was delicious and everyone enjoyed themselves.

Additional Pictures:

Rebecca - Fourth Grade

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Rebecca's Fourth Grade Picture above

Also we are very proud that Rebecca had two articles published in the local paper - the only one from her school! She is a very good student in all areas - but her writing is especially good. The articles are shown below. (You might need to blow up to 200% to read)

You can write a note to Rebecca at:

horselove1998@yahoo.com

Rebecca: Very Nice Job!

Love,

Grandpa

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Rebecca, Granny and Erin went to see the Lippizaner Stallions at Madison Square Garden - Rebecca really enjoyed the show!

Spring Baby for Erin and Chris

2007-10-28T15:32:00.000-04:00

Erin and Chris are thrilled to announce that their baby is due in April. Erin and 'bump' glowing above.

Deals keep Pat in India

2007-10-28T15:25:00.000-04:00

Pat has spent an enormous amount of time in India this year, trying to close an important deal. He has been there on 10 trips since March! Shown here with the doorman at his hotel in Gurgaon (just outside New Delhi).

Erin and Chris' Wedding

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Erin Donnelly and Chris Chan Roberson Wedding

June 16, 2007

Before the event

The first order of business was, of course, a Korean Massage for the hardy few (foolhardy?). Erin arranged a body scrub and spa day for herself and invited along a few other hardy souls like Aunt Shari, Vinnie, and Carol. Kris and Diane wisely declined. We have stories to tell out our massages and steam room, hot tub experience for years to come. Hilarious! and not a bit relaxing. Erin's masseuse walked on her back but the staff all did have nice "uniforms" of fancy purple or black underwear that they wore for all this. This place was Korean run and they bossed and pushed us around so much that we can laugh about it now; after that was Manicures and Pedicures and we got marshaled into place by the staff at another place, meanwhile all our hair was standing straight up and our makeup running from the spa experience. Meanwhile, across town Chris, the Groomsmen of Mass Destruction and Uncle Paul went to the Russian-Turkish Baths after magnificient hot dogs at Crif's with Uncle Al and father-of-the-bride.

Out-of-Towners Dinner

The festivities continued as Chris and Erin hosted a Welcome Dinner of the Out-of-Towners on Friday night.Many Donnelly's traveled from California and Washington State to attend.Kris and John and Diane came from San Francisco area, Paul and Shari from Seattle,Al and Sally and Georgianna, Mike and Joanie from LA area and Georg Olsen. Not to forget long lost cousin, Nanette coming with the effervescent Steven. (Nanette caught the Bride's boquet later). Our old family friend Bob Randle and Jeff and Claire Randle came from LA also Bridget, Carl and Rebecca came from NJ.

Chris' mom, Ellyn, dad Clarence and Virginia, wonderful Grandmother Sophia and Auntie Andrea and her family as well as the Groomsmen of Mass Destruction , Gene, Jamil, Kevin, Ajay and John all attended with great revelry. Marc was ill and had to stay in LA but came a few months later with his fiancee and significant others, including the wonderful Indu came too. Vincenza, Erin's friend for 24 years, was "best woman".

The Wedding

The marriage was in the lobby of the gorgeous Woolworth Building, downtown, New York City. It is a Gothic beauty of a place. Their ceremony was very personal; they wrote their own vows and had some funny parts in there too - just like them.

There was a small cocktail reception in the Woolworth Kitchen Restaurant then they made their way to the bigger Celebration, a Banquet Reception at The Golden Unicorn, Chinatown New York City. Naturally, in the best tradition, Erin had two beautiful dresses, one for the wedding and one for the reception.

There were about 200 guests there from all sides of every family plus long time friends of Erin and Chris and colleagues from work over the years. Erin even had a friend there from her second grade class in California, Annie Herringer. Chris has friends from all parts of his life and times who were in attendance.

Pat was the MC. Many people wanted to toast Erin and Chris. Also old friends wanted to add something about the day and the most brilliant toasts were spoken by Chris' former students who said among other things, that Chris had gotten himself a "hot" wife.

There were many courses of excellent food that Ellyn had especially helped in choosing. Also lots of dancing with music provided by the excellent, Chris Chung, Erin's old college mate who flew in from Michigan to DJ for the event. Lots of enjoyment were shared by the whole crowd and all were pleased to share at the joyous event of Chris and Erin.

The official wedding picture site is:

http://elizabethbickphotography.com/PDF/ErinChris.pdf

Other Wedding BLOG:
http://erinccrbigday.blogspot.com/

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Erin and Chris' Vows:

Entrance order:
GMDs enter and serve as ushers
Friends and family enter
Judge Ellis enters
CCR and Ajay enter
John and Diane enter
Carl, Bridget, and Rebecca enter
Clarence and Virginia Roberson enter
Kevin and Sophia Chan enter
Gene and Ellyn Roberson enter
Vincenza enters
GMDs take positions on stairs
Erin and Parents enter

Judge Ellis:
(opening comments)

Judge Ellis:
Christopher has chosen a segment from Richard Bach’s book, Jonathan Livingston Seagull, to be read by Erin’s Maid of Honor, Vincenza Trentacoste. He has chosen this quote because, considering the people presently in attendance, some meeting each other for the first time, others reuniting after not seeing each other for a great period, it reflects how to deal with distance between loved ones and time spent apart.

Vincenza:
"Sully, I must go back," Jonathan said at last. "Your students are doing well. They can help you bring the newcomers along."

Sullivan sighed, but he did not argue. "I think I'll miss you, Jonathan," was all he said.

"Sully, for shame!" Jonathan said in reproach, "and don't be foolish! What are we trying to practice every day? If our friendship depends on things like space and time, then when we finally overcome space and time, we've destroyed our own brotherhood! But overcome space, and all we have left is Here. Overcome time, and all we have left is Now. And in the middle of Here and Now, don't you think that we might see each other once or twice?"

--Richard Bach, Jonathan Livingston Seagull, 1970

Judge Ellis:
Erin has chosen a passage from Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s book, The Little Prince, to be read by Christopher’s Best Man, Ajay Balakrishnan. This passage explains the meaning of the Rose who shares planet B612 with the Little Prince. On this auspicious day, the Little Prince reminds us that “It is only with the heart that one can see; what is essential is invisible to the eye.”

Ajay:
"You are beautiful, but you are empty. One could not die for you. To be sure, an ordinary passerby would think that my rose looked just like you--the rose that belongs to me. But in herself alone she is more important than all the hundreds of you other roses: because it is she that I have watered; because it is she that I have put under the glass globe; because it is she that I have sheltered behind the screen; because it is for her that I have killed the caterpillars (except the two or three that we saved to become butterflies); because it is she that I have listened to, when she grumbled, or boasted, or even sometimes when she said nothing. Because she is my rose."

--Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince, 1943

Judge Ellis:
Exchange of vows (Erin, then Chris)

Erin:
I, Erin, on this day, in front of our family and friends, vow to raise my voice so you can hear me but I promise to speak with gentle and kind words.

But first, a poem by Walter Benton from This is My Beloved written in 1943, a book passed down from Roberson father to Roberson son; to be given to the woman you’d marry. On this day, I share a passage with you.

What enslaving cocktail have I sucked
from your full mouth
to leave me so totally yours!

The red pulp of your kisses is sweet on my tongue
as the red ripe melon meat—
yes, even now … though remembered only,
though you are marketing your love.

I have looked too long upon you, too long …
and with so much love, strangers can see you in my face—
as the sun and vivid colors leave an after-image in the eyes.

I, Erin, vow to share poetry and art with you our whole lives long and I promise to honor you as an artist, my lover and husband.

Today we stand under a glass ceiling decorated with the names of world powers at the turn of the last century including Spain, Russia, China, Argentina, France, and the U.S. Inspired by these locations, I vow to leap together into new adventures wherever they may take us and I promise, and I will try, to let you lead on the dance floor.

From our first home together, The House of Yes in Queens, to saying, “yes” on the Ha’ Penny Bridge in Dublin, the past years with you have been the best of my life. I vow that our married life will be just as rich and exciting.

I cannot wait for the rest of our lives to begin. I vow to love you each and every day in this millennium and beyond.

Chris:
I, Christopher, on this day, in front of our friends and family, vow that eighty years from now when we're taking vacation on the moon, drinking stardust and reminiscing about the good old days, when you turn on the holographic dance machine and play God Only Knows by the Beach Boys, I'll still remind you that I'm the one that's supposed to lead when dancing.

I vow that none of our private jokes about patrol otters, cars with no drivers, vicious crickets and talking cats will wear thin, but if they ever do I guarantee more memorable times will be there to follow, because many years ago I made a vow that there would never be a dull moment between us. However, I never promised any of those moments would be sane.

Eight years ago when we went to see David Blaine bury himself in Lower Manhattan I vowed that every day we wake up together would be that much more special.

I vow that there will always be coffee in the morning, phone calls in the afternoon, and cuddling at night.

I, Christopher, on this day, in front of our friends and family, make my vow to hold you in the Winter
I vow to run with you in the Spring
I vow to laugh with you in the Summer
I vow to rest with you in the Autumn

Ring Exchange
Judge Ellis:
And now the Best Man will provide the rings for the ring exchange as a symbol of their commitment and union.

Judge Ellis:
Do you, Christopher, take Erin, to be your lawfully wedded wife? To have and to hold from this day forward for better for worse, for richer for poorer in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish as long as you both shall live?

Chris:
I do.

Judge Ellis:
Do you, Erin, take Christopher, to be your lawfully wedded husband?
To have and to hold from this day forward for better for worse, for richer for poorer in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish as long as you both shall live?

Erin:
I do.

Judge Ellis:
Then by the power vested in me and by the State of New York, I now pronounce you Husband and Wife. You may kiss the bride.

Erin and Chris ask that everyone remain where they’re standing for a quick group photo.

Garden Party at Circus Lodge

2007-07-15T07:12:00.000-04:00

Leaving London Garden Party at Circus Lodge

Girl Wonders

Wine and Cheeses from all over the world were the focus for the party outside in the Garden of Circus Lodge. The chesses had name tags - but none for the guests.

Angie and Ruth Alvarez visiting from U.S. got pressed into service. Harry, of course (Mr. Party) all helped immensely!!

Guests

Cecile and Florian, Zellma, Mrs. Kennedy, Angie, Ruth, Richard and Sandy Patterson, Kat, Mike, Steven and baby Jamie, Dino, Jenny and baby Andreas, Jeff and Lisa, Maddy and Steph, Michelle, Mark and baby Harmony, Celeste and Miriam , Miriams visiting friends, Henry, Maggie and Shawn, Orlando.

Howard and Estrella, Bridget, Phil, Cait, Ella and Kasia, Can, Lola , Michael , Jonny and newborn baby Jimmy, Chris and Kath, Laura and Rich missing but there is spirit.

Opera Ruth and Peter came one week early.

Two Left Feet Pat

Pat knocked off the door buzzer for the flat bending down to pick something from the floor and crashing his head on the tv screen sending it flying and making sure that we couldn't hear the guests arriving - 10 minutes before arrival time!

Harry saved the day as usual and had his family watching the main door screen to let everyone into the garden; Harry had it fixed the next day.

The Big Sale OR Basket Heads Unite OR the After Party

The hangers on at the party came up to the flat for giveaways of all household goods that we weren't taking back to U.S.

Mark found some nice selections of the perfectly shaped green lime and a plastic hanger.

Others were trying on baskets while Shawn juggled the veggies.

So a good laff leaving London!

We had the best time of our lives over there! Mamma Mia - what a run!

Thanks everybody!!!!

Farewell to London - many parties!

2007-06-11T20:18:00.000-04:00

Saying Farewell to London was the hardest thing to do!

Such great friends and great times and experiences and travel over here.

Pat was busy traveling in India to make a good name for himself and the company so Angie and Carol (partners in crime) anticipated leaving London by doing as many of the things that were possible to do in the city, on a whirlwind schedule.

Hampton Court Palace, many plays, ballet, opera, an open air event in Trafalgar Square, called Eat London were on the schedule. (International food to be sampled from a food map made of London- to be seen to be believed!), the fabulous Borough Market on South Bank were on the schedule. Also, going to the South Bank for plays and a few more pubs.

Sylvia Luber joined Carol for a trip to The Tate Modern and the Gilbert and George Show. She wins the award for Good Sport!! Then we went over the Millennium Bridge to St. Paul's and actually attended Evensong. I have been reading about Vicar's officiating at Evensong services in Agatha Christie mysteries for years and finally attended one. We did hear some beautiful Latin a capella chant.

Laura Mangan was in the U.S. for our Cambridge trip so she generously sent her friend, Ellen and we had a totally great time. Cambridge = totally great English tradition.

Then Kath and Chris Smith took us early on for a going away do atMilk and Honey (a speak easy as PJ says) in SoHo. Totally great London after hours experience. Decadent and opulent.

Howard and Estrella invited us along with Bridget Freeman next door to them, to a delicious, delicious homecooked Chinese Banquet at their flat so say goodbye since they were going to be in Hong Kong and weren't going to be around later.

There was an office " do " organized by the great Angie again. There was champagne, eats and a wonderful memory book of everybody Pat had worked with in Europe- adding comments and great pictures of all of them.

He took as the greatest compliment , "You are the most European American I have ever met". Also, he was thrilled to hear from Jon Collins that night from far away Singapore to wish us well. Then we all went on, as arranged to the Round Table Pub, just off St. Martin's Lane, for more pub atmosphere and more friends joining there . And after that, we went on to the Embassy of Texas Cantina. That is Pat's favorite Tex Mex place in London.

John Rivers took us out to drinks on Monday before we left to the wonderful atmospheric Salisbury Pub and helped us by giving our theatre tix for that night for The Drowsey Chaperone to a lovely, lovely young couple in Leicester Square who RAN to the theatre to fill our seats for us. Pat had made just two too many trips to the far away India and was too too tired and would be a Drowsy theatre goer- so the young ones took over for us.

We spent a wonderful last few weeks in London with the totally great friends who helped us to say GoodBye!!

We hope to see you all again-- Soon!!

Love,

Carol and Pat

New Address in New Jersey

2007-06-07T19:06:00.000-04:00

Hi all!

We have moved back to Bridgewater, New Jersey. A townhouse in "Crossroads at Bridgewater"

Address:

Pat and Carol Donnelly
157 Northfield Road

Bridgewater, New Jersey 08807

Home Phone: 908 393 1607

Carol Mobile: 908 304 5700

Pat's Work Mobile: 908 821 8500

Pat work: 732 699 8662

email the same: donnellypc@yahoo.com donnellycookie@yahoo.com

Google map: http://maps.google.co.uk/maps/ms?ie=UTF8&hl=en&amp;t=h&om=1&msa=0&msid=113544036380705576714.00000112f495e9da66a94&z=19

We are still moving in, but will send pictures of our new digs 'after the wedding'

Triple Play

2007-02-25T16:14:00.000-05:00

John and Diane announced their engagement over the weekend. we are VERY happy with this as John and Diane have been together for many years and clearly love each other.

So this makes all three of our children engaged this year. More details to come for John and Bridget - but Erin firmly decided for June 16th.

Congrats John and Diane!

Pat and Carol Leaving London

2007-02-18T15:07:00.000-05:00

Pat and Carol to Leave London by June 1, 2007.

Pat was called back to America by Telcordia; formalspeak for "No Way Out!"

We will be returning to Bridgewater, New Jersey, U.S.A. close to both daughters and their families.

We are really really really really sorry to leave London and all the wonderful people and friends we met and enjoyed friendships with over here.

It was THE most wonderful time of our lives and we loved every minute of it.

Wonderful and fabulous to have had this opportunity to make friends and see a lot of Europe in the bargain.

Goodbye and THANK YOU speech (like the Academy Awards)

to:

Goodbye to dear neighbors, Zellma, Bridget Freeman, Cait Mc Carey , Phil Sookias and family, Jon Collins and his wife Lizzy , Rebecca and Mike Friedman and wonderful children Sonia and Leo, our wonderful Harry , Celeste, Orlando (Mr. Fixit) and Henry and Carlos. All the people at the Kilburn Park School Library especially, Vicky, Rasha, Kat and Lari. And Laura and Rich our dear travel companions, all the people at the hospital Royal Free in Hampstead. Maggie and Shawn the American friends sent to us by Bill Hunnell and Jessica. All our wonderful "boarders" who stayed in the guest room while we were here. All the people at Pat's office. Michelle, Mark, and Harmony Bo Hampson. Ruth, (our Opera companion). Cecile and Florian our old neighbors, Lola, Michael and Jonny Bailey . Maddie and Steph and their Dad, Alistair sent to us by Megan. All the members of the Circus Lodge Cultural Exchange and Estrella and Howard. Our great Aussie friends and # 1 party goers, Chris and Kath Smith. Andy Vollero, Trish and Douglas Garland (Georg's friends) who entertained us at his private club, The India Club here a couple of times- introducing us to yet another way of the London elite life.

EVERYONE at the Mayfair office and the new St. Martin's Lane office who were so welcoming to us here. We appreciate it and will miss you so much!

Everyone who came to stay with us:

our kids, John, Diane, Bridget, Carl, Rebecca, Chris (Captain), Erin, Cousin Dennis, Christopher and Brian, Kris, Marti, Lauren and Betty, Andrew, Mary, Gerogianna, Sue, Kathleen, Georg, Dale, Steve, Robin, Lucy, Dennis, Paul, Shari, Tanya, Cameron, Al and Sally, Megan and Kim.

Cousins Tasha and Tami, Mike and Joanie, Orianna, James and Martin, and everyone who came to the First Annual St. Patrick's Day party last year.

Dave and Sylvia Luber, and Mark Effinger. Thanks to all for making our time so great over here!

Cafe Rouge friends (our "local") where we spend Christmas Eve or Christmas Day- where people are just like family,

Ella and sister Kasia Kasiak, Teodora, Sammy, Cen, Julia, Marco and everyone else there.

Goodbye and wish we were staying!!

Love,

Pat and Carol

Beautiful Barcelona - Gaudi and Catalonia

2007-02-18T13:38:00.000-05:00

Sagrada Familia, Gaudi

Livable city, easy to get around, great underground system, people friendly enough, many people working there from Madrid and more far flung countries like Sweden to take advantage of the good economic success of the area.

Languages spoken are:

Catalonian (strong French influence)
Spanish
English
in that order

Pat had a working few days there at a worldwide 3GSM convention. Pat and I took the tourist bus all over the city to get the "lay of the land". There are SO many things to see and places to pop off the bus, it could easily take a few days just to scratch the surface of Barcelona.

Interesting long history, beautifully situated on the water, wonderful weather, really good food, and the most photogenic city. Barcelona just appears to have it all.

I spent some time doing "Gaudi" territory there. However, if this isn't "your cup of tea" - you certainly could find many other things to keep you busy there.

Gaudi's lizard welcomes you to Guell Park

Gaudi led the Modernisme art movement in Barcelona http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Modernisme. The time was around the late 1800's to early 1900's and Barcelona architecture EXPLODED with color, light, curves and lots of mosiac tiles. It is Barcelona's version of the Art Nouveau that is so popular everywhere else in the world. So, you can go all around to see "Gaudi Park" Guell is it's real name, the "Gaudi Cathedral" , real name is Sagrada Familia, and the many residences he built and have a hard time seeing them all.

Shockingly to me, I have seen pictures of Sagrada Familia in Art History class decades ago but didn't realize until we went there and saw all the cranes that this place is decades away from completion! People are still constructing and welding, and it is still roofless. It could easily be a 100 years more to complete the project.

As far as people being friendly....

one woman warned be not to be too casual about my purse and keep it firmly under my arm as she walked me to my destination of the Palace of Music and dropped me personally at the door.

Another woman walked me to the Barcelona Cathedral. And the man selling drinks, gum and newspapers was gracious enough to ask me to come back and have a coffee with him at his little stand in the Metro. When I walked back after a long day of seeing beautiful architecture and having paella I saw that he had a chair set out by his booth waiting for company. I passed on the invitation but it was funny.

Ticket Booth at Palace of Music

What a wonderful city! We would want to come back and spend lots more time going to all kinds of new adventures in the city and surrounding areas of Catalonia.

Busman's Holiday

2007-01-24T01:55:00.000-05:00

Pat and I don't have a car in London. So our method of transportation is walking, taxis once in a while but mostly we rely on the Underground and London's bus system. And they are filled with fun and adventure.

Some funny things happen while using the public transportation.

First Day on Route

On a recent trip to the West end we had a bus driver, a woman who was originally from Jamaica or some Islands who got very lost on the route. She asked something no one could understand and when the bus started taking a new route into the most crowded part of the city someone said, "TURN RIGHT!". Then she grumbled, "I ask - but nobody answers". "I told you this was my first day driving this route!!!". Then a guy from upstairs comes down and says, "Excuse me, is this the 139?"

"Yes".
"You are on Piccadilly (a huge crowded street) and you should be on Regent Street (very congested street). So she says, "how do I get there?".

Another woman and I take our our maps just to be sure, and the other passenger says, "I'll just stand here and guide you." First you need to turn around, at which she proceeds to make a giant K-turn right in the middle of the on coming traffic - on Piccadilly! "Somebody watch my rear! she gaily calls". Most bus riders don't drive and might not know when it is safe but no matter. "You're good!" someone calls as we labor through a sweaty palms turn. the brakes are working very well as I fall back hard into my seat.
"Sorry!" she calls out.

When she stops for a signal several people ask for an impromptu stop and get the heck off the bus before any other adventure happens. But we are not there yet. "I need the young man from upstairs again! " she calls. I go to get him and he comes running down, "I heard that!". He stands by her again directing a sharp immediate left turn unto Regent Street. Here we are on her home ground because she drives the 189 which goes this way. Now, many more large groups of riders start piling on the bus the rest of my way home but they had NO IDEA that this was not a normal route, normal day because she was on track again.

Pat Goes SPLAT!

Pat thought he could beat the closing doors on the Tube. Wrong! He got hit hard, knocked off balance and thrown to the floor in a big SPLAT, sprawled out there with his briefcase and all. Everybody in the car was shocked and he said, "Don't worry, I'm fine". (do this kind of thing all the time). I got slammed in the doors a couple of times when we first arrived when you don't hear or believe the warning whistle. It is a mistake you don't repeat.

Tossed like a Hooligan!

Our neighbor, Zellma and I were riding home from the hospital and were thrown off the bus along with everyone else because of some hooligans acting up. The driver threatened to do it if they didn't stop being so annoying. They would not stop pushing the stopping buzzer- so off everybody went at the next stop. Anothseer time we had Mr. Toad's Wild Ride on a bus coming from Swiss Cottage and some riders thought is was like taking a ride at a fun fair and we were all trying not to laugh.

Don't Get Lost in NYC

Pat and I met a ginger haired young man who works for the London Underground and he said the FIRST thing he did when visiting NYC was to go underground to see how the Subway worked. He was amazed that there was NO ONE at all who he could ask for any help. They have a person locked in a little booth selling tokens but no one to direct you when you get lost.

I have seen many a London Underground employee pull out the huge map book that each station keeps for lost travelers and point people to their destination.

In fact, when first here and just hesitating with a street map on a corner or studying a tube layout will bring someone to your aid. A complete stranger saying, "You all right?". Then asks where you want to get to - final destination and point the way.

Don't Get Lost in Dublin!

Not like in Dublin, where you stop at least three times on a two block journey because the directions are so vague. ( a suggested journey) "Can't miss it" (you always miss it with this one) "just down the corner" "go a little ways and you'll come upon it" (come upon what?) or you ask how to get to the Harbor and they ask you, "Like fishing, do you?" Twenty minutes later, you might get directions. Either that or you will be in the pub with them.

Get Lost in London!

To be fair, London had the best fool proof system of maps on the walls, maps in the cars. additional directional guides in the tunnel while you are waiting for a train you can see if it is going where you think it should be going. Announcements for MAAAAble AAAAch with the short "A" and all stations on some lines. Maps showing the next station, indicators at each station in color coded lines which show exactly what lines are transferable from that station.

I have a love affair of sorts with the London Transport System. Strikes and partial strikes are announced in advance. There are all sorts of plans for alternate transportation when a line is down.

And a great love for the drivers, your ordinary average Joe or Josie, who has a background and language from anywhere around the world, most likely. They all got right back in the buses and the tubes the very day after the London suicide bombing tragedy in July, 2005 and bravely drove their routes. And Londoners bravely got back on them and traveled.

"I love everything about the Tube....the old stations, the people, the way everybody uses it," was a quote from Kris.

Of course, taxis are much more civilized.

One Year Anniversary of our BLOG

2006-12-31T13:09:00.000-05:00

Hi all! This is the one year anniversary of our BLOG. We are having LOADS of fun doing it and have enjoyed all of the positive comments back from you. So I guess that we will continue.

Happy New Year!

Merry Christmas to all

2006-12-24T08:02:00.000-05:00

We were in New Jersey and New York mid-December to see Erin, the Captain, Bridget, Carl and Rebecca for a mid-December Christmas. Unfortunately, we won't see John and Diane, but we exchange a lot of email and Skype each other. Bridget and Carl made a very nice Christmas Dinner at their place. Carol and Erin took Rebecca to see the Christmas Show at Rockefeller Center.

We were very happy to have a nice evening out with the Schaller's and the Schnure's and they surprised Carol with a very nice birthday cake.

We are spending Christmas in London with a brief trip to York; enjoying Christmas Eve and Boxing Day with friends. Carol appears to have cornered the market on Christmas cookies in Northwest London.

We attended Handel's Messiah at St Martins-in-the-Fields on the 23rd - Belmont Ensemble and the English Chamber Choir. We've been listening to classical music performed by the Academy of St Martins-in-the-Fields all of our adult lives. We were thrilled with the actual church and a very seasonal-appropriate venue and performance.

On Christmas Day we will have dinner at our 'local' - Café Rouge in St Johns Wood.

Best wishes for a happy family time at Christmas and a healthy and prosperous New Year.

Love
Pat and Carol

Fall Classico

2006-12-11T00:32:00.000-05:00

Costa Cruise, "Ancient Treasures" on the ship Costa Mediterranea.

We traveled on a big new Italian ship, Costa Mediterranea, and had one of the many cabins with a balcony.

On the left is Pat at the midnight buffet on the right is Carol at the Slots Tournament - ye gads!

The ship itself was done up in the most garish Italian style. Donald Trump would have loved the decorations for one of his casinos.

Olympia, Greece

Our first stop was the Greek sacred site, Olympia, home of the Olympic games since 700BC. We had a very knowledgeable guide who took us through the site. The Temples and rooms were constructed from special stone made out of sea shells from millenniums of being under the sea.

As well as the site of the original Olympic Games, Olympia was also the site of one of the Seven Wonders of the Ancient World, the Statue of Zeus; yhe statue is long gone, but ruins of the Temple remain., left and see also http://ce.eng.usf.edu/pharos/wonders/zeus.html

Women weren't allowed in the games. One proud mother thought she would break this rule to see her two sons crowned in laurels. She was found out and was saved from the death penalty because her family had many Olympians. Once crowned, you were considered a god for life. They reinforced the men only attendance rule later by having everyone come to the games nude - so there would be no mistakes.

Today on the site you can see later Roman buildings side by side with the early Greek buildings They used totally opposite methods of building. The large slabs used by the Greeks were traded for small bricks held together with cement by the Romans.

In Turkey we made two stops.

First stop was Izmir to see the Basilica of St. John and then to the home of the Virgin Mary. That area is loaded with treasures of Ottoman, Christian and Roman ruins. Turkey has many wonderful surprises.

Basilica of St. John is in ruins today. But was built by Justinian and Queen Teodora in the 500's AD in a glorious location and in the form of a cross. There is enough see today to "get the idea" of this shrine built over the tomb of St. John who was buried there 400 years before. They have an interesting full body immersion Baptism font there with stairs going down to dunk the new member of the Church and officiant.

The Virgin Mary's House was a place of reverence. It is tiny, and has an outside altar set up for Mass when the Pope visits. There are many spigots of Holy Water running at all hours of the day and night for the faithful. Also, they have a petition fence and wall filled with requests to the Virgin Mary for restored health and other human concerns. Priests guard the house inside and out to see that a reverent silence it kept so people can worship in peace.

The house itself was unearthed only two hundred years ago. The story behind it is that a nun in Germany kept having these recurring dreams of this house, its location, it's importance as the "retirement home" of Mary. She convinced a priest and some of his helpers to physically dig up layers and layers of earth and behold there was the house just where she said it would be and looking just exactly as she described it. The nun had never left Germany. The evidence to support this is that St. Paul had been in the area preaching and other disciples of Christ were in Turkey so it is very possible that this is the "real McCoy".

More information: http://www.kusadasi.biz/virgin-mary/

Next stop Istanbul.

We visited the New Mosque. It was required for us to take our shoes off and carry them in a plastic bag. Also you must be covered decently, even the men (no shorts) to enter the Mosque. Our guide told us the history of the Mosque and a short history of the people and their Moslem religious beliefs. There were unusual and rare blue tiles there. Depictions of people and animals are forbidden in the religion so we saw mostly Arabic writing and pictures of plants.

Vendors were selling "genuine Chanel #5" which our guide said was probably city water bottled in the correct packages outside the Mosque. And an enterprising fellow poured a liquid on my suede shoes trying to clean them before I said no. These are the things you find anywhere tourists stop.

Topkapi Palace was next with its huge diamond and all the treasures of the former Sultans gathered when Atatürk took over in recent history. They have reliquaries for St. John's hand, Mohammad's hair and his footprint. There is a favorite guide story when seeing the ancient writing on big slabs, they finally figured out it was a recipe for omelet for a couple of thousand people who lived at the palace, including the Harem.

Topkapi Palace became even more popular when the American movie called- Topkapi came out a few decades ago, featuring the Topkapi Dagger, right.

Also at Topkapi you can see the Bosporus and the marking of East and West - Europe and the Orient just in front of you on the shore.

Next Stop: Dubrovnik, Croatia

Dubrovnik, Croatia is a beautiful spot on the sea. After the recent war there this country is becoming more and more of a tourist stop. It is recognizable by the red tile roofs of the houses. They had a gateway to the fort and old city center. It was small like a keyhole- for protection -and is still there today. The side streets were uphill and tiny but had many shops and bars and restaurants on them.

We saw the Franciscan Monastery and they had one of the the first pharmacies in Europe - it is still in business to this day.

Venice

City where the streets are made out of water. We took a long and beautiful ride down the Grand Canal on the public bus called Vaporetto to St. Mark's Square. Everything is so breathtakingly beautiful.

The art gallery called the Academia was so beautiful and rich architecturally, it was almost worth it just to see the inside of the opulent building. They had ancient religious art treasures there, like the gold painted altarpieces which made the Venetians so famous.

Back to London

Saying goodbye to our table mates, shipboard pals and gambling companions, Acey and Rina. A very nice couple, we had loads of fun with them.

"It was a Dark and Stormy Night......"

2006-10-07T14:23:00.000-04:00

At Stapleford Park

Deep in the heart of Leicestershire County, sheep and hedgerow country, lies a 650 year old country manor house, Stapleford Park. You can imagine many an intrigue, hunting dog, mistress or juicy murder was present here.

A couple of ideas come to mind-

a real live setting for the game of Clue
with all the characters, Colonel Mustard, Miss Scarlett, etc.... (We stayed in the Peacock Room)
all the correct rooms were there: the Conservatory, the Library, the Billiard room

The episode "Visit to a Stately Home" of the English TV comedy "Keeping Up Appearances" could have been filmed here (We both LOVE this show). In this episode, Hyacinth Bucket (pronounced as 'bouquet', according to Hyacinth) and her husband go to an English country house-turned hotel for a golfing weekend. It turns out to be a "wolfing" weekend for the snooty Hyacinth as she is chased over the country-side by the amorous English Major (with jodhpurs and whip); Hyacinth arrives back at the manor house with her hair a mess, hat askew and floral chiffon dress in shreds. Hyacinth also mistook the Lord of the Estate for the gardener.

Visions of Agatha Christie's books such as 'Body in the Library' or the Agathia Christie based movie, 'The Mirror Crack'd' starring Elizabeth Taylor and Rock Hudson- both set in a grand English country manor houses. The movies included 'the manor' as a grim murder scene after the village fête, complete with coconut shy, tombola and tea tent, was held on its grounds.

All of these images are conjured up when visiting Stapleford Park in Leicester county.

Imagine:

These scenes, along with Vicars on bicycles peddling down beautiful country lanes to the Manor church complete with gravestones (that is there as well)
. . . and if you can't quite picture Vicars on bicycles, picture the Vicar and Tart's party in the first Bridget Jones movie.

As a matter of fact, the cast and crew of 'Pride and Prejudice' including Donald Sutherland and Keira Knightly stayed at Stapleford Park during their recent filming. Many important guests have stayed there, including Fergie (former Duchess of York) and her girls Beatrice and Eugenie.

The Manor/turned hotel has been added to during the last few centuries so that today it has become a gaming and sports center too. For the guests, there is a first rate golf course, a giant outside chess board and the ever popular croquet. They have the expected billiard room, falconry, archery, tennis, swimming, fishing, clay pigeon shooting, a fitness center and spa. Stapleford Park has its own helipad should you need to fly in.

Each room is furnished traditionally; each one different from the next, and named- not numbered. We had the Peacock Room- undoubtedly named after Mrs Peacock in the aforementioned Clue game. (with the wrench in the Conservatory?)

We were there because of a business conference, sponsored by Martin Dawes Systems. Pat gave a keynote speech and was honored (embarrassed) that night (Pat's birthday) by the entertainers at the gala dinner. They announced his birthday and had everyone sing, did a skit from 'Dr Who' (Americans - ask your English friends) with the whole audience chanting, "Donnelly, Donnelly, Donnelly, Donnelly" . Then they had several young guys from the audience get up and perform a Riverdance special dance in honor of his being Irish. They had half the audience playing instruments; I got the timpani and everyone was singing. After that they had a disco, Pat and I were the first to dance and had a really good time.

It was far and away the best business conference we have ever been to and my dream come true to stay in an English Manor even for a couple of days; saying hello to the sheep in the meadow each morning and good night to the horses in the evening.

A funny, thoughtful touch was a big neat rack of Wellies (Wellingtons- mud boots, in all sizes from 6 to 60) by the big front door for bad weather so you can take your brisk and bracing walk.

No matter what - hoo hoo hooray! for the good clean English country life

See the manor at:

http://www.staplefordpark.com

Ah, those MacAller girls!

2006-10-06T03:27:00.000-04:00

Had Dinner with Tasha and Tami in London

Tasha and Tami were in London for a whirlwind holiday of sorts; they are the late Uncle Al and Aunt Sally's daughters. Uncle Al is Pat's mother's brother.

Pat met Tasha on St. Martin's Lane (outside his new office) on the street! Quite a coincident! They had a drink at the trendy St. Martin's Lane Hotel across the street.

We haven't seen Tasha for a while and hadn't seen Tami for 12 years!

On Sunday, we all met up at Rules - billing itself as the oldest restaurant in London, fabulous English good food and Victorian/Edwardian decor at it's best. Picture at right.

Tasha is a fabulous chef with her finger in many pies; we appreciated her comments on the food and her wine selection. Tami is famous for promoting diabetes prevention for the state of California. Lots of catching up to do!

Later we had drinks at the American bar at the famous and swanky Savoy Hotel
where Tasha was honored by a complimentary birthday glass of champagne and fresh strawberries presented on shaved ice. (BTW - Erin and Tasha share the same birthday) .

We enjoyed a very nice evening together.

Budapest is Best

2006-09-17T04:45:00.000-04:00

Budapest Is Best
Fall 2005 & 2006

Budapest is made up of three parts Buda, Pest and Obuda. The Blue Danube separates Buda which is hilly and doesn't have hardly any subways from Pest which is flat and has loads of subways. The river runs north and south.

The history goes back thousands of years, the language is impossible, and as my nephew, Christopher pointed out "they fought and have been conquered by almost everyone but themselves" if you look at their history.

The food is absolutely wonderful. One of their specialties is goose liver. Hard to imagine why they love it so much until you taste one of their pates on toast.

They love their wines and have special regions for special kinds. Restaurants we tried had huge books of Hungarian wine from which to choose.

The people seem really nice and geared up for visitors.

We had many good nights out and began to appreciate the Hungarian food, music and customs.
We even had an Hungarian night when we came home with goulash and all the Hungarian decorations and wines and music. Maggie, Shawn, Maddy and Steph came over to help us consume it all. The Hungarians we visited made such a big and good impression on us.
Below is Pat "shaking a leg" and Carol being serenaded on last year's trip.

Many visitors pour all over the city all day and night it seems. We were lucky enough to stay on top of a hill right by the Castle and next to St. Mathias Church. There was such a beautiful panorama view from there.

They light up the whole city at night, so the landmarks are clearly visible and it looks like a fairyland.

Visited Obuda to see the Roman Ruins in 2005.
Visited the opulent Parliament, disorganized Ethnology Museum. (in their defense, they had the greatest display of Hungarian costumes, furniture everyday items, farm equipment, celebration gear from the past) We took a daytime boat ride of the Danube, explored the Castle district and did lots of shopping and eating.

Pat was there for business conferences both times.

Megan's Fiesta

2006-09-17T02:52:00.000-04:00

Megan's graduation from Humboldt State University was marked with a grand fiesta in the back garden of Kris's house in Petaluma. Megan was an excellent student the whole time she was there and always worked SO hard.

Gallons of margarita's, (ask John) many trays of quesadilla's, enchiladas, beans, salads, mini burritos, homemade salsa, Mexican soft drinks, Mexican beers were on hand.

Decorations were totally great. There were banners, flags, a piñata, donkey, candles and little party toys.

More than 60 wonderful, fun loving guests celebrated with Megan. People came from all over, especially those who have known the O'Connor's and Megan since the beginning of time. Haley flew in from Colorado as a surprise for Megan; they have known each other since they were two.

So many people contributed to the party with all kinds of help and special dishes and being fabulous guests.

There were three musicians with different kinds of guitars.
They were a surprise and strolled into the party singing and playing .

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The evening was capped off by Megan doing a performance of a special belly dance she had prepared for the guests. That was such a personal touch and made it a party for everyone to remember.

Joe would have been very proud.

One Weekend, Two Engagements!

2006-08-21T06:03:00.000-04:00

Bridget came to London with Carl to pickup Rebecca and Erin and Chris were here for a holiday. As things turned out they both got engaged on the weekend of August 12th!

Bridget Donnelly and Carl Wetzel and Rebecca

Carl wanted to talk to Rebecca before announcing to us - she was very happy about the news - and so are we! Bridget and Carl are perfect together and Carl is a very, very nice person and a great addition to the family.

Erin Donnelly and Chris Chan Roberson

Erin and Chris have been together for 7 years - so this was not entirely unexpected! Chris' plan was to propose in Ireland on their holiday - this got disrupted by the terrorists closing all flights in London! But he didn't give up; lot's of back stories - train across England to Wales, overnight ferry crossing to Dublin. The deed was done on the Ha'Penny Bridge in Dublin and she said yes.

We are very happy to 'officially' welcome the "Captain" to our family - and be part of his family as well!

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All of us are very happy with the news! The precise plans are still unfolding - probably weddings within the next year. It will not be a 'double wedding' - both couples will have their special day. We will keep you posted as things proceed.

Rebecca "summers" in London

2006-08-21T04:58:00.000-04:00

Rebecca spent two months with us in London and environs. We had a wonderful time with her and she enjoyed many activities. The highlights are shown below.

Rome

We spent four days in Rome; Rebecca's summary: hot, old, great food, more beggars than cars, more churches than I've ever seen.

We did the usual sights - I think Rebecca was most impressed with St. Peter's, Trevi Fountain, Coliseum and gelati.

London Zoo

Carol got a year pass and Rebecca went four times! (or was it five). She saw her old friend Crackers, the giraffe and enjoyed everything. The London Zoo really is a very nice Zoo.

She also enjoys 'the jumpy thing' and the slides. She an I saw the brand new butterfly exhibit the first weekend it was opened.

Activities

Rebecca spend a week at day sports camp - she grudgingly admitted that she liked it (a little). She saved a goal as the keeper!

Library Reading club - she signed up at local library and did really well - probably read over two dozen books over the summer!

Swimming Lessons - Carol signed up Rebecca for a one week series of sessions. She did great! AND wanted to sign up for another week! Her Mom, Carl and I saw her last day lesson - she really learned a lot.

Painting and ceramics: One week at ceramics class - a coffee cup for Carl and a baby dino were the highlights - but she did a piece every day. I took her to a half day painting lesson with her friend Cait at the Tate Britain.

"We Will Rock You" - Carol and Rebecca saw the tribute to Freddy Mercury and Queen. She said it was the best play she ever saw. We all went to "Billy Elliot" - one of my favorites, maybe too cheeky for Rebecca.

Blackpool and York

We spent four days traveling by train in England; trips to Blackpool and York. Blackpool is a dodgy town with piers and amusements - sort of like Atlantic City without the charm. Not recommended. (Although Rebecca liked the games)

York is one of my favorite cities - and Rebecca enjoyed it as well. Lots of Viking and Roman history - oh - and English too. York Minster to the right.

Last Week

(See next post) Rebecca was joined by her Mother and Carl and Erin and the Captain were also here - so it was a good family week - see exciting news in next post.

Carol Volunteering at Royal Free Hospital

2006-06-12T04:08:00.000-04:00

Carol is volunteering at the Royal Free Hospital in Hampstead in the Maternity Ward. http://www.royalfree.org.uk/

She specifically wanted the Maternity Ward so she can deal with families and newborns for her volunteer days. They have an extensive vetting process for volunteers - seemed like even more than for employment!

Aude and Family

2006-05-20T10:40:00.000-04:00

Pat was in Nice, France mid-May at a business conference and was able to visit with Erin's exchange student from high school, Aude. She is shown here with her baby Oscar, 6 months and Bertrand. We haven't seen each other in about 15 years!

Aude's English is MUCH better than Pat's French - and we fumbled over translations - but the big smiles need no translation anyway. Oscar is a VERY happy baby.

Luckily, Aude's parents, Henry and Geneieve, were visiting from their home in Provence, so I was able to see them as well. We had a very nice visit in Nice.

Marvelous Munich- May 2006 Land of Monks

2006-05-20T08:36:00.000-04:00

Really interesting city, complex and complicated- lots to it.

We went on a city tour the first day- That way if you never get back to certain parts it doesn't make any difference- you have general idea of the place.

There is the old city. The new parts were built and old parts re-built after around 60% of the city was bombed out in the infamous WW II mess. It is located in Bavaria which is a little different from the rest of Germany. They governed themselves for centuries totally apart from the rest of Germany. They have this cute little flag. It has a sky blue and white diamond pattern all over it.

Their city symbol is the Lion and they have made jokes about it all over the city. Big lions are reclining, standing and generally goofing off-painted in funny ways. I got a snap of a beer drinking lion.

We went to an all day castle tour. Mad King Ludwig built and kept building castles until the government was bankrupt and threw him out. He turned out to be a bit of a “nutter”- He could be compared to Michael Jackson for his strange and reclusive ways. He slept all day and went out all night. He took midnight rides in the snow in a fabulous and wonderful, highly ornamented sleigh. We saw a few of his vehicles. They were totally unbelievable!

He even had his servants bring him his dinner through a hole in the floor. They had to lower his personal dining room table through a series of pulleys up and down through as many as 12 courses. His decorating was- to use the British slang- “just wicked”!
He couldn’t have been too crazy to have created such beauty- I just love him.

One of his bigger castles -translated into English- New Swan Stone, is set down in the middle of the fabulous mountains of Bavaria - with sheer drops and a waterfall and was the model for Walt Disney's Cinderella's castle. The whole place makes you feel as if you are in fairy tale.
We were really glad we got to see them.

Sights and sounds of the city itself- Beer halls with corny music, Churches, town squares with the traditional Maypole humming with holiday crowds, and the greatest underground system.

The system runs so well because the Germans are punctual and efficient. The U-Bahn and S-Bahn Underground and rapid transit system were only created 30 years ago for the 1972 Munich Olympics. It was "purpose built" instead of a hodge podge system like other cities that have been built them around their existing systems. It is timed for up to the minute scheduling and has matching bus and trams radiating out at precise angles from the subway stations. An honor system prevails for tickets.

We also went to see the Concentration Camp just a few miles from the center city -so close- if you can believe it! Dachau was the first holding camp and a model and training school for the unspeakable and cruel SS of the Hitler government. They had this motto on the front gate. “Freedom through Work”. If ever there was such a LIE….. And similar slogans were on the roof, facing the courtyard where all could see everyday.

I am glad that we went. It is a HUGE area, lots of photo exhibits and good editorial comments - A picture IS really worth a thousand words. Also actually being there is worth much more.
It was very well done and didn't seen so scary to me after seeing so many movies and documentaries on TV about what happened. However, I had nightmares about cruelty so it did make an impression.

Another thing that was memorable was the big map they had there showing how EXTENSIVE this comncentration camp system was. Everything from holding offices to death camps were shown on map and it was very dense. It was too sad, and my knees were actually shaking.

I read that every German student is required to take a trip to a Concentration Camp in their school career. Hitler hung around this area as well as in Berlin from 1923 onwards- so you can't escape the presence of this period of history when going around town. "They had this meeting here", etc. ……

There are some really pretty parts of the countryside that are very close to the city in all directions. For that matter the city is very beautiful and has lots of public spaces that are green and lush, especially the Englisher Garden, the largest public park in Europe. The people speak English often enough for tourists to get help and get around town and use the transportation system.

Food is distinctive. There are some funny translations of dishes such as pig knuckles. All traditional Bavarian food seems to go very well with beer. Beer as a way of life is clear. There are wonderful beer gardens- some holding THOUSANDS of people. Their beer is REALLY the best. We tried to get around sampling lots of varieties. The breweries are hundreds of years old and usually had some start with a monastery. Some are still produced in monasteries now.

We met many really nice fellow travelers from all over the world. We had lunch on “castle day” with Lisa from St. Petersburg. It was really great because we had lots of questions about St.P and she wanted to know about London. We opted for transportation up hill to the castle in horse drawn donkey carts complete with a German speaking Bavarian–hatted driver. We were rushing to get back to the tour bus with a couple of other stragglers. Our guide threatened us with actually leaving if we were too late. The cart driver was strolling around and getting himself an ice cream cone, and just generally prancing around. I never felt more like strangling anybody in my life before that. Kids always get to sit in front of the cart and since he was busy with his entertaining talk and ice cream, the kids drove us down the hill under his watchful? eye.

Mariensplatz (above) is the center of everything

We went to Nymphenburg Castle right in the middle of a gorgeous section of town. Mad King Ludwig was born there and spent lots of money later “gilding the lily” to make it even more magnificent. The grounds were “way huge”. Turkish captives were used for the back breaking work of building a canal to make the place look even prettier. This was about 150 years ago. They had a little cottage on the grounds that are billed as being the “finest Rococo building in Europe”. It was relatively tiny but was “drop dead gorgeous”. The King’s private swimming pool, huge museum housing some fanciful carriages and some glamorous gardens as well as the main buildings were all tremendous.

Pat cut his business lunch time short so we could take a quick spin around the Royal Jewels exhibition at the huge Residence. (Palace) They had some great historical stuff there.

Also, my new American Munich-based friend, Susannah went with me to see a wonderful modern exhibition of German artists. They were showing the controversial “The Bridge” art movement. It was shown in a very cool permanent gallery unlike the stuffier art on view at the more static and rigid museums.

Long travel letter, but Munich has SO much to offer and this is just our impression of it for the time we had there. There is so much more. Olympic Stadium, new Stadium for World Cup games, BMW Museum, plus lots more food and festivals. Well worth the trip!

Love,
Carol and Pat
Your Eyes and Ears Travel Journalists

Auf Weidersein!!!!!

Prague is Great- March 2006

2006-03-27T02:20:00.000-05:00

Cool Prague

Wonderful, wonderful city in the mystical, historical Bohemia. Is located in what is now called the Czech Republic.

The language, Czech is almost as unrecognizable as Russian - so thankfully many people speak some English to help the bumbling tourist get around town. Plus the fact that every one on the street has an open map!

St. Vitus, St. Nicholas, Church of the Virgin- the Infant of Prague's home, St. John of the Laundry- all Catholic Churches- always and still are. They have many concerts- especially Mozart all the time in these churches and some advertise- HEATED. These churches are much colder than the outside which could be freezing. Most of the big churches make triple use of the ornate Rococo style and are way "over the top" but so beautiful and unforgettable.

We just "scratched the surface" of the culture and hospitality of the city- but there is so much history, culture, entertainment, nightlife, friendly café venues of all kinds of food and a people friendly to the loads of tourists who pour into their city.

So far, it is our favorite former Eastern Bloc country and maybe that is because they didn't have that much WWII damage or weren't so tightly controlled under the Communist thumb- that there is a happier feeling that is almost palatable. It feels like a place you could fall in love with - like people fall in love with SF.

As an interest- unique to their city, is the Infant of Prague. It is called a "cult" by the travel book- that may be overstating it but people are very fond of the I of P. The statue is wax and was given to the friars by the a Spanish noblewoman some 400 years ago. He is about 2 feet tall and is situated on the most glorious of altars. The altar has more gold than the eye can behold and is highly over ornamented.
There is a little museum dedicated to just his clothes. He might outdo Barbie in outfits. The colors have to be changed to match the holy days just like the Priests' vestments.

Also special to Prague are black light theatre, marionettes, and The Castle, which is huge and oh so beautiful and on the top of the hill.

The artist A. Mucha is also the "patron saint- artist" of the area. Along with his familiar art nouveau work like this one, he did a special epic series about the history of the Slavic peoples which was shown in at The Brooklyn Museum. We finally had the definitive pronunciation of his name "Moo-ka".

A gently hilly city, with hundreds of warm cellar cafés, taxi drivers who need to be bartered with carefully, great public transportation (we only took trams but they have a metro, lots of culture in the way of museums, concert halls, outside musicians (jazz is really big) , cobbled streets for lots of walking , many adventures to offer- Prague is A-o.k.

Sinatra at London Palladium - Carol's Review Added

2006-03-11T15:06:00.000-05:00

WOW! A wonderful show - and Carol and I don't even like him!

We saw this on Saturday the 11th of March in London (opened on the 8th). It was really, really well done. The staging was especially fabulous - and the dancers were great.

It's done with very clever videos and Sinatra real voice overs backed up by topical dances; e.g. 'bobby-sockers' from the 40s, JFK campaigning from 1960, etc.

If you have a chance to see it it's very worthwhile.

http://www.sinatra.com/

Sinatra at London Palladium
by Carol Donnelly, reviewer for all seasons and all reasons

This show was so good; I thought it would be because I had been "keeping an eye on it" in production.

The production had Francis Albert himself performing his own songs though old footage. The staging was tremendous with all kinds of elevated floor panels, drop screens and the band stand coming forward and backward as needed. The entire big band (about 25 musicians) on stage was very, very good.

It was presented as a chronological biography with musical history of the times (late 1930's up wards) including the political history of the times, with WWII, Ava Gardner, Kennedy, Rat Pack, Vietnam war, war protesters, Mia Farrow, Las Vegas.

My favorite "number" was one that didn't feature him at all, the jive music of the 40s, with the entire cast dancing, jumping and jiving all over the stage and in the orchestra. Even the conductor dancing while he was conducting! I forget whether it was song or a medley but they were all singing and dancing and I have never seen anything like it!

There were complete costume changes for all cast (except the big band) from head to toe including the wigs EACH SONG.

According to a lady I met in the restroom, is only going until Oct because something else is coming to the theater - Pat thinks maybe it will travel, NYC and LA are obvious venues, maybe even Las Vegas (or is it too uptown for Vegas?)??

Although not ever a big fan of Francis Albert Sinatra, I couldn't deny what a huge impact he had on the times and music! He sang loads of Cole Porter songs, especially early on, and gave even more meaning to syncopation in music.

One thing I got out of it besides rollicking good entertainment was a sense of a good family man, who had other love interests, great entertainer with some down years of self doubt, a CHARISMATIC personality, and a very very intelligent man.

A real winner of a production.

"What the hell does Pat do?"

2006-03-11T02:34:00.000-05:00

Skip if you are bored by business stuff.

I was featured in Issue 2 of Convergence World, Feb/Mar 2006 attending an analyst conference on IMS. (IP Multimedia Subsystems) The discussion of the future state of telecoms was lively and interesting. The photos show me 'at work', for those of you wondering "What the hell does Pat do?"
Notice the others 'leaning in' to be sure they don't miss a single word.

January Book: Persian Fire

2006-01-05T04:04:00.000-05:00

I really liked this book. It is a 'real' history - but written in a narrative style. It traces the conflict between the world superpower in ~500 BC - Persia - and it's conflict with Greek 'terrorist states - Athens and Sparta (and other city-states). Many say that the Greek defense (successful) against the Persians 'saved the West', aka Europe, from Asian dominance.

It answers some interesting questions:

1. How far is it from the bloody battlefield at the Greek city of Marathon to Athens
2. How did Democracy start and flourish in Greece ~2,500 years ago
3. How did 300 Spartans hold of ~200,000 Persians at Thermopylae

A very readable book - for history buffs - and VERY relevant. One historian said that the defense at Thermopylae was more important to UK history than the Battle of Hastings (William the Conqueror)

Anyway - I liked it and encourage the interested to give it a go.
Pat

As a side note, I was reading this book in Berlin and in the very next room (see photo above) the actual Processional Way in Babylon where Cyrus the Great of Persia reveled after he beat Babylon was shown in the Pergamon Museum - way cool.

Book Review below

http://books.guardian.co.uk/reviews/history/0,6121,1566336,00.html

Antarctic Conditions in Berlin

2006-01-04T01:43:00.000-05:00

Antarctic conditions made it hard to get around to all the museums. Walking tours were cancelled and no concerts or ballets were on. However, all modes of transportation were going including sledding.

Our Friend Lysann

2006-01-01T08:00:00.000-05:00

Carol and I met a Berliner - Lysann - in Rome in August with her mother . She said we 'must see her beautiful Berlin' and her enthusiasm is what made us go.

We were going to go in November - but the reservations got messed up. (Military time vs 'real' time)

Her picture with us in Berlin in December.

Pat

Visit to Berlin

2006-01-01T07:47:00.000-05:00

Hi All:

We just got back from Germany.

You can't believe it! The snow and cold- ugh
But
it was pretty pleasant because as the snow stopped falling, people just barged on with their day.
They don't really clean the sidewalks too often or too vigorously so EVERYone had wonderful boots or shoes on everywhere. No ladies tripping around on high heels here.

This would be a great city to see in a better season especially the summer because they have lots of parks and green areas which were not being used because of snow. But they had lighted paths, one even lit with little flame torches, you have to give them credit for that.

We stayed in the East Berlin side of town which was really the best.
They have museum island with at least 5 museums and the beautiful Rococo church Berliner Dom (Lutheran) . It has a pipe organ with over 7,000 (really) pipes.

Lots of cultural things to do - concerts, ballets, operas, plays - the lot. The people are nice and speak lots of English and taxi's are SO efficient. You call and they arrive in 2-3 minutes.

We took a city tour to get the idea of what and where everything is located. There is a little of the communist influence there, lots of new buildings, lots of empty space where things haven't been built yet after clearing the rubble away from WWII over 60 years ago.

We met a nice Berliner friend in Rome last August. She has been studying at Humboldt
University in Berlin for years while working too. She met us and wanted to show us some of "her" Berlin. What a doll, Lysann (about 30). She just got back from a couple of months in Africa and was golden tan. She took us to a cave like restaurant located under the S-Bahn (metro, subway, underground - we have picked up so many words for it) that was named The Twelve Apostles and had pizzas named after each individual apostle (Judas' pizza had tongue in it) and great curved painted walls and ceilings.

She and her mother were at the next table to us in Rome last summer and she told her mom- "they look like such a happy couple- probably celebrating their anniversary in Rome" We weren't but what a great way to meet someone. They shared the remains of our wine with us that night in Rome.

We hope to go back and see ALL of the city. Interesting interesting city. Lots of life there, culture, nightlife, art scene.

Oh, we saw the Berlin Wall (what was left of it) and the German's call treasure seekers who try to chip away little bits of the wall for souvenirs, "woodpeckers" in German. The last bits of it are protected. Of course they wanted to take as much down as possible when the unification started.
Our taxi driver said he was raised there and the day the wall came down in 1989 was "the happiest day of my life". Our bartender (young) said that his first language is German and second is Russian because the Russians were in power when he was little and it was required.

We saw the Brandenburg Gate, Checkpoint Charlie is still there. Across the street there is a Checkpoint Charlie museum that has lots of stories about escape attempts people made (and mostly succeeded). There was a Jewish Museum that was so popular and had long lines in the snow waiting to get in. That and C. Charlie Museum were too crowded for us to wait in the cold but we will try to get back there.

They also have dozens to themed Berlin walks which I don't think were going at this time. Another time. Everything from Hitler's Secret Berlin to architecture tours, history, food- anything.

The river Spree winds through the city and we crossed it dozens of time just getting around. They do Christmas in a huge way too. Not ashamed to have religious themes going. Lots of Nativity sets, displays. They have winter carnivals too with big big slides like the ones you see in summer but these are used for snow sledding. Adults love them too. Berlin on Ice. Ice skating for everyone, Christmas Markets. (for the whole season selling everything from food, entertainments, outside in park-like grounds all lit up). We saw lots of parents pulling sleds out on the city streets for their kids. (kinder)

Beautifully lit up avenues- some big ones like the Champs Elysees with a big parkway of Linden (I think) trees in the middle, all lit for Christmas.

We also met some American friends from London for dinner there another night. Had very good German food and wine. Also tried some of their beers, Berliner being the most common. I forget the other one.

A real happening city.
We went on the reccommendation of our Berliner friend and were not sorry.
Come back in the summer.

Back in London now.
Quiet New Year! yea!

Have a good New Year and talk to you all later.

Love,
Carol and Pat

Christmas Cracker Jokes

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HI REBECCA (Picture of Rebecca on the right)

HERE ARE SOME JOKES GRANDPA AND I COLLECTED FOR YOU FROM THE CHRISTMAS CRACKERS

WHAT DOES THE HEADLESS HORSEMAN RIDE?

A nightmare

WHERE CAN YOU DANCE IN CALIFORNIA?

San Fran-disco.

WHAT DID THE JUDGE SAY WHEN A SKUNK RAN IN TO THE COURTROOM?

"Odour in the Court"

WHAT SORT OF TELEVISION PROGRAMMES DO DUCKS LIKE?

Duckumentaries

Love,

Grandpa and Granny

First Day of 2006

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Starting this blog. We'll see how it turns out